Ive had few (thankfully very few) occasions to suspect someone was in my house in the middle of the night. I have never HAD to make that life or death decision and I am grateful for that. However, if I were to encounter another man in my home...sorry...my family is too important to me. He loses, no question. And I would feel horrible and sad. I would also be very angry at him and his stupidity for ever putting me in that situation.