Here's a thought. How about the military personnel just do what they are ordered to do? Not to sound mean or anything but isn't that what you all are trained to do? What's that old saying..."you don't have to like it, you just have to do it". I'm sure that those in the military don't actually like killing people...yet they still do it when ordered to. Or are you trying to say that following orders to kill someone is easier than following orders to serve with a particular person who's sexual orientation has no relation in how well they fight?