To recap this whole thing as I understand it (since as everyone knows, MY opinion is highly respected and followed...right):
Congress suggests a bill that would eliminate DADT.
Military says "hold up a sec, we want to run a question form past the troops to see how they would react to this" (since it's the military, they don't ask their subordinates whether or not they should issue a given order, but rather what they would do if said order was issued, and how it would affect their plans, etc. And even then, it's only because this is such a far-reaching type of order.).
Congress says, "sure, that makes sense" (I agreed with that part).
Military comes back with "well, looks like most of our troops don't give much of a damn."
Congress says, "we won't support this plan."
I say, WTF?!?!