be humble for you are made of earth; be noble for you are made of stars
and did they frolic around flaunting it, girl talk kind of inuendos, the carpet colors clashing in the tv room, mess hall decorum kind of outward giveaways?
Did they discuss their "partners" openly?
Did they bring their partners to Christmas partys, or functions and outwardly show affection?
these are serious questions, I'm curious?
By the way, it goes both ways. I went christmas shopping this week with two gay women, and they did not talk about sports, men's clothing or anything like that, but how pretty some outfits where, how well things would go with their home decor, and so on. Gay men are not women, gay women are not men.