Again, why is it such a big deal that you "have to talk about it". This is the military, not Oprah. What importance is it to a soldier to walk around talking about what gender he likes to **** in his/her spare time?
The gay community isn't happy unless they're in your face with their sexuality all the time. Why else would you need a gay parade with men walking on their hands and knees with dog collars and leashes?
The general message is "nanny, nanny, boo-boo, I'm gay and you have to accept it, ha ha."
Hey, go ahead and bone all the ass you want. Just leave me alone about it, okay?