However, my husband was a Marine, in a combat unit. He was a tow gunner. I went to the Marine Corps Ball with him, both as his gf and as his wife. I do know what I am talking about, at least to an extent. I know that he has no problem with homosexuals serving openly. He doesn't feel comfortable with men hitting on him, but since it has happened before now, he doesn't figure it will get worse just because homosexuals can now tell people they are homosexual.
And this bs about combat units and unit cohesion being affected is just that, crap. If you believe it, then prove it.
"A woman is like a teabag, you never know how strong she is until she gets in hot water." - Eleanor Roosevelt
Keep your religion out of other people's marriages.
Do you understand what unit cohesion and discipline in the ranks is? Care to explain--from your experience in the military--what that is?
The military is going to find a way. It has no choice. America is going to be brought into the modern world.