"Never fear. Him is here" - Captain Chaos (Dom DeLuise), Cannonball Run
Mace Windu: Then our worst fears have been realized. We must move quickly if the Jedi Order is to survive.
Now, oddly enough, your second example is not going to get some one discharged for acts. Acts refers simply to sex with some one of the same sex. Dressing in a "gay" manner(hint: gays who join the military are not the type who dress or act like that) is not going to get you a DADT discharge.
So, in point of fact, you are wrong in both assertions, and your scenario is entirely false. People in the private sector do not get discharged(fired) for telling coworkers they are gay, they do in the military.
Is there a rule that would be being broken if heterosexual soldiers who support gays in the military were to all start stating that they are gay? Like, on a specified day all heterosexual enlisted folks who support the repeal of DADT posting to their Facebook wall "I am gay." Or whatever.
You can never be safe from a government that can keep you completely safe from each other and the world. You must choose.
Of course I would be upset if a soldier assaulted another soldier, unless it was self defense.And if it was, would you be this upset if someone beat up an openly gay solider? Because they were breaking the rules, a rule which is by far worse than a dress code violation.
Women (Nasty or otherwise) are going to be the reason that Donald Trump is NEVER President!