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Federal Gay Marriage Ban Is Ruled Unconstitutional

I deliberately deleted a comment I made to that effect because I didn't want to get side tracked.

You're 100% correct.

A CCW permit is no different than state issued driver's licences.

Except that driving is not a right whereas the right to keep and bear, like the right to marry, are rights.
 
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It’s very simple.
It’s about legal vs. tradition.
The state would deal with the civil (contractual, testamentary, and mandatory) aspects only.
The marriage part is only customary, traditional or religious and is up the people involved, their families and their community (be it church or whatever group).

Because....?

That's all the state deals with now...soooo...changing the name is pointless.

You're saying the state shouldn't recognize what has been ruled to be a Fundamental Right, that the state should leave this right to private entities and not protect it.

What other rights do you suppose the State shouldn't protect?
 
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That's all the state deals with now...soooo...changing the name is pointless.

You're saying the state shouldn't recognize what has been ruled to be a Fundamental Right, that the state should leave this right to private entities and not protect it.

What other rights do you suppose the State shouldn't protect?

It doesn't need protecting. The state doesn't need to be involved in any way, shape, or form. Anyone can go get married any time they wish, and exercise their "right" to do so. They can do that without the state's involvement. In fact, the best way to ENSURE that everyone has said rights fairly is to remove the state's involvement.
 
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It doesn't need protecting. The state doesn't need to be involved in any way, shape, or form. Anyone can go get married any time they wish, and exercise their "right" to do so. They can do that without the state's involvement. In fact, the best way to ENSURE that everyone has said rights fairly is to remove the state's involvement.

Well yeah until you want automatic inheritance, tax deduction, hospital visitation, spousal privilege or any of the other rights and privileges provided for marriage.
 
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I'm actually hung up on my opinion.

I, first off, support gay marriage.
I, secondly, don't feel that such a thing as *marriage* should differ state to state. . . all marriages should be recognized in all states - none of this 'here and there' thing.

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So by this ruling they've decided that the gov can't institute marriage . . . and the states can.
Which is 1/2 good if you support gay marriage - but that also means that they government can NEVER be in support of it, either. . . which goes against what I'd like to see some day.
 
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Well yeah until you want automatic inheritance or hospital visitation.

Automatic inheretance and hospital visitation aren't rights. And, those things can be dealt with on an individual basis. The state need not be involved.
 
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Automatic inheretance and hospital visitation aren't rights. And, those things can be dealt with on an individual basis. The state need not be involved.

I've tried telling pro-gm that many times before. They don't accept it.
 
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So is polygamy cool, too?
 
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I've tried telling pro-gm that many times before. They don't accept it.

And they shouldn't, as long as the state recognizes opposite sex marriage. I'm talking about the state removing themselves from the issue altogether. But if the state IS going to be involved, as they are now, then it needs to be fairly.
 
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So is polygamy cool, too?

That's up to each individual state to decide for themselves.
 
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And they shouldn't, as long as the state recognizes opposite sex marriage. I'm talking about the state removing themselves from the issue altogether. But if the state IS going to be involved, as they are now, then it needs to be fairly.

And again, what other fundamental rights do you suppose the state should turn it's back on?
 
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And again, what other fundamental rights do you suppose the state should turn it's back on?

They're not turning their back on anything. The state doesn't need to be involved at all for people to get married. Why do you think they do?
 
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That's up to each individual state to decide for themselves.

So if Utah is cool with polygamy, and a dude with his four wives moves to Kentucky, does Kentucky have to acknowledge their marriage, too?
 
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They're not turning their back on anything. The state doesn't need to be involved at all for people to get married. Why do you think they do?

Automatic inheritance, spousal privilege, hospital visitation, and all the other rights gays are fighting for.
 
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Automatic inheritance, spousal privilege, hospital visitation, and all the other rights gays are fighting for.

Marriage is not required for that. And those aren't rights.
 
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So if Utah is cool with polygamy, and a dude with his four wives moves to Kentucky, does Kentucky have to acknowledge their marriage, too?

As I understand it, yes. Kentucky doesn't have to issue polygamist licenses if they don't want, but they have to recognize another state's license.
 
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Marriage is not required for that. And those aren't rights.

I've tried telling pro-gm that many times before. They don't accept it.
 
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As I understand it, yes. Kentucky doesn't have to issue polygamist licenses if they don't want, but they have to recognize another state's license.

So what if a guy wants to marry his mother.....or his brother?
 
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So what if a guy wants to marry his mother.....or his brother?

I need you to be more specific with your question.
 
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I've tried telling pro-gm that many times before. They don't accept it.

OMFG

Do you not comprehend the difference between state involvement in something and banning something, the state's non-involvement in something and not banning it?

We're talking two different things here. As long as the state is involved, then they need to do so fairly. Banning certain people from entering into contracts based on race, gender, religion, etc can NOT be allowed to continue by our own government. We, as a people, cannot continue to allow such discrimination to happen.

But, if the state removed itself from it altogether, the right would be free to every single person in the country regardless of race, gender, religion, etc. Everyone could get married, any time they want. The state is not infringing on any rights or turning their backs on them because they are not involved. They don't NEED to be involved. Individuals can handle things themselves. We don't need big brother holding our hands.

But as long as they ARE involved, they need to be involved fairly. Currently, it is not done fairly. It is blatant discrimination and that cannot be tolerated. We can't tell women that they're free to marry women sans the state and jump through hoops to get privileges that are freely given to others any more than we could tell blacks to do that, or protestants to do that, or wiccans to do that.
 
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I need you to be more specific with your question.

Just trying to prepare myself.

If Massachusetts rules that gay marriage is legal, Utah rules that polygamy is legal, California rules that man can marry his mother or his brother, and New York changes the legal marrying age to 13 and 70-year-old man can marry a 13-year-old boy........

Do I have to recognize these marriages in Texas if they all move here?
 
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OMFG

Do you not comprehend the difference between state involvement in something and banning something, the state's non-involvement in something and not banning it?

We're talking two different things here. As long as the state is involved, then they need to do so fairly. Banning certain people from entering into contracts based on race, gender, religion, etc can NOT be allowed to continue by our own government. We, as a people, cannot continue to allow such discrimination to happen.

Sure no problem.

But, if the state removed itself from it altogether, the right would be free to every single person in the country regardless of race, gender, religion, etc. Everyone could get married, any time they want. The state is not infringing on any rights or turning their backs on them because they are not involved. They don't NEED to be involved. Individuals can handle things themselves. We don't need big brother holding our hands.

Until you want something legally enforced, then you have a problem.
But as long as they ARE involved, they need to be involved fairly. Currently, it is not done fairly. It is blatant discrimination and that cannot be tolerated. We can't tell women that they're free to marry women sans the state and jump through hoops to get privileges that are freely given to others any more than we could tell blacks to do that, or protestants to do that, or wiccans to do that.

Sure, no problem.

Same-sex marriages are welcome as a variant on the theme just as humanity has welcomed many other variations of marriage.
 
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Just trying to prepare myself.

If Massachusetts rules that gay marriage is legal, Utah rules that polygamy is legal, California rules that man can marry his mother or his brother, and New York changes the legal marrying age to 13 and 70-year-old man can marry a 13-year-old boy........

Do I have to recognize these marriages in Texas if they all move here?

Just as all these states have to recognize the concealed weapons permits of all the Texas residents who subsequently move out, yes.
 
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Do I have to recognize these marriages in Texas if they all move here?

You as an individual are not legally required to recognize any marriages.
 
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