You may not like it but that is the way it is and although it has not been perfect its worked pretty well since 1993.....The military does not have a problem now.....Do away with DADT and they will.........We are fighting 2 wars at the moment.we don't need the distraction...........but they can serve as long as they don't know about it? As long as it's secret, they would have no problems showering with a gay? That's ridiculous. You honestly think that servicemen would abandon the military because they would feel uncomfortable with showering with gays?
The same servicemen who are willing to risk their lives to serve our military, but you don't think they can risk showering with gays?
Yes it is for most men too......The military is not a democracy..........When you sign the dotted line you agree to the rules........If you don't like the way this dictatorship works, don't join....A sexist double standard is what it is.