I apologise... But you couldn't serve with him? Because?
he couldn't house with another male he wished to marry because?
So, if DADT is repealed, and a straight refuses to obey a gay commander, will you also doubt he will have the discipline to be a soldier, and will you also be concerned about what other orders he will refuse to obey?
"Never fear. Him is here" - Captain Chaos (Dom DeLuise), Cannonball Run
Mace Windu: Then our worst fears have been realized. We must move quickly if the Jedi Order is to survive.
"God Bless Our Troops in Harms Way."