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    Re: Women say some rape victims should take blame - survey

    Quote Originally Posted by Toothpicvic View Post
    Anti-rape female condoms for the win!

    LOL - Yeah, I thought about that!
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    Re: Women say some rape victims should take blame - survey

    Quote Originally Posted by Kali View Post
    As someone pointed out to you sometimes having something to try to protect yourself can make it worse. What if I go for my gun, they take it and kill me? That gun sure helped me a lot, huh?
    I would imagine it's quite difficult to use a gun effectively while drunk and high on coke

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    Re: Women say some rape victims should take blame - survey

    Quote Originally Posted by Kali View Post
    As someone pointed out to you sometimes having something to try to protect yourself can make it worse. What if I go for my gun, they take it and kill me? That gun sure helped me a lot, huh?
    What if they just bring their own gun and kill you anyway? What if you do kill them first? What if?

    I'd much rather start with a gun in my hand than nothing.

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    Re: Women say some rape victims should take blame - survey

    Quote Originally Posted by Kali View Post
    The thing is that a rapists who is looking for a victim is gonna find one. So your point is moot. All the actions in the world is not gonna stop the fact that someone is gonna be raped. Can you lower your risk by doing things that people feel is being pro-active? Sure. You can do that and fail or maybe get lucky they go onto someone else.
    If the victim demographic within a population chooses not to improve, then yes, you're right, someone is going to be raped.

    You as an individual get to choose whether or not you're going to be that victim pool.

    The Titanic is going to sink, but you can choose not to be on it.

    Quote Originally Posted by Kali View Post
    My thought is that if someone wishes you harm? It does not much matter what you are doing as they are gonna do it anyways. Sure we lock our doors and whatnot but that that does not prevent someone from breaking those things to get to you. Or maybe they will wait til they see you on the street and then get you. Thing is if there is a will there is a way and no amount of protection will protect you.
    Sources provided indicate that taking away ease of access does in fact lower the chances of you being the victim.

    This is the same principal my father taught me when I was 10 regarding locking my bike. I had a cheap, flimsy lock on a weak chain. If you wanted to, one good whack with a rock and that lock would fly open. Non the less, I was told to at least lock the front wheel to frame even if there was nothing to lock my bike to, because a lot of crime of various types can be detoured simply by making it inconvenient for the criminal.

    Someone could pop the lock on my pos car if they wanted to, reach under the seat and find something well worth their effort. But simply putting items out of sight and locking the door deters a would-be thief. They could still do it if they wanted, and they know that, but simply making myself more trouble than they might want to put into the act works in my favor. If I left valuable items on the seat, then a criminal might decide popping the lock would be worth the effort.

    Likewise, if you don't display your "goods" and stay sober and aware, your chances of being victimized are reduced. You don't have to be the fastest gazelle in the heard, you just have to faster than the slowest gazelle in the heard.
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    Re: Women say some rape victims should take blame - survey

    Quote Originally Posted by Catz Part Deux View Post
    Wrong. Some people get sexual pleasure from sadism. That's still sex. The first type wants to think he's "dating" his victim and giving her sexual pleasure.

    You've bought one of the inaccurate myths about rape (that it is never about sex). More often than not, it is. It's not ONLY about sex, but sex is definitely a key part.
    Rape is usually about power and control.

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    Re: Women say some rape victims should take blame - survey

    Quote Originally Posted by SE102 View Post
    When a woman claims rape.... and there is no bruising... or sign of pysical resistance on her part....





    stone her...


    according to sharia law...






    and we will all benefit allah willing....

    Sharia law is islam-o-nazi bull**** that needs to be removed.

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    Re: Women say some rape victims should take blame - survey

    Quote Originally Posted by Jerry View Post
    I would imagine it's quite difficult to use a gun effectively while drunk and high on coke
    A person doesn't need to be drunk or high on coke to have their firearm taken from them and used against them.

    Is that what you're saying?

    Oh yeah...

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    Re: Women say some rape victims should take blame - survey

    Quote Originally Posted by TheGirlNextDoor View Post
    A person doesn't need to be drunk or high on coke to have their firearm taken from them and used against them.
    No but sobriety sure does help.

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    Is that what you're saying?
    Is what what I'm saying?

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    Oh yeah...
    Now you're getting it

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    Re: Women say some rape victims should take blame - survey

    Quote Originally Posted by Vader View Post
    Rape is usually about power and control.
    Funny, so is gun ownership..and gun control, for that matter.

    Thug wants to control you with rape, you can control him back with a .45.

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    Re: Women say some rape victims should take blame - survey

    Quote Originally Posted by Vader View Post
    Rape is usually about power and control.
    It's frequently about SEXUAL power and control. Pretending that it isn't about sex is just ridiculous.

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