If you get screwed in a business deal. It is your fault for trusting others when you should have been paying attention. If you get raped after you "started" it. It is their fault?
I refuse to accept the view that mankind is so tragically bound to the starless midnight of racism and war that the bright daybreak of peace and brotherhood can never become a reality. - MLK
I'm surprised you don't advocate forcing women to wear burquas. I mean, we wouldn't want to do anything 'wrong' by being visibly attractive.
Fiddling While Rome Burns
Carthago Delenda Est
"I used to roll the dice; see the fear in my enemies' eyes... listen as the crowd would sing, 'now the old king is dead, Long Live the King.'.."
As a responsible teenage girl, you can go out on date with a boy you've known for years. He's driving, goes somewhere OTHER than what he'd told you previously and proceeds to overpower you and rape you.
You scream for him to stop, no, bite, scratch and kick. Nothing stops him and in fact, this seems to drive him further and further past the point of rationality.
He finishes, takes the responsible teenage girl home.
So. This is her fault as well as his?
I don't think so.