United Kingdom, and Uruguay?
Because I've not read any articles about any of their militaries falling apart as a result of lifting the ban on gays serving.
Or do you prefer to be in the company of these freedom-loving nations:
Cuba, China, Egypt, Iran, Jamaica, North Korea, Pakistan, Russia, Saudi Arabia, Singapore, Serbia, Syria, Turkey, Venezuela, and Yemen?
Seriously, which nations look predominantly like nation's that respect liberty and freedom - and which community of nations look a little backwards and NOT bastions of liberty.
That's the company you keep.