But, if what the enlisted think about gays in the military is of concern:
"Results of an Internet poll released Tuesday show most serving in the military approve of working with openly gay service members.
The Washington, D.C., and New York City-based Zogby International Poll revealed 73 percent of military members are comfortable with gays."
Poll: Most Troops Support Gays in Military | Palm Center
I served openly gay, along with several others, and no one cared. The people who do care are the minority.