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New Jersey Senate Defeats Gay Marriage Bill

Uh, no.

This is where you are totally wrong.
The idea of marriage dates back WAY before popular religions deemed it as such. It was originally a transfer of wealth...or property..which the "wife" was part of.

That's never been the tradition of marriage in this country, which was based in Christianity from the get-go. I'm not talking about the days in ancient worlds when people traded off their oldest daughter for two pigs and a lamb.
 
The reports that claim the opposite that I have seen have major methodological flaws and are not credible. Folks who claim they have changed are a different matter and a different discussion. We would first have to discuss the difference between sexual orientation and sexual behavior.


Again just like global warming there are two sides to the issue and both are adament they are right........
 
Again, dreadfully wrong. The err in the Virginia ruling is obviously steeped in racism and is wrong in every way. The New Jersey ruling is simply to maintain the definition of what marriage is and always has been, and it is based in simple first-grade common sense.

Really? Because when my son was a first grader, he could see that anti-same-sex marriage laws were wrong!

Racism and Homophobia...both are harmful to equality. How you can separate the two and say they aren't similar is ignorant.
 
What you do not note is that the number who find homosexuality is declining steadily, and the number who find is morally acceptable are rising even faster. Source: Americans Evenly Divided on Morality of Homosexuality

2001: 40 % acceptable, 53 % morally wrong
2008: 48 % for both.

I suspect that this trend will continue and possibly accelerate. SCOTUS might decide it before the numbers change enough to make it so it passes voter initiatives, but it is not needed. It will within the next few years start passing based on voter initiatives.

What I don't understand is if America is evenly divided on the subject why do you lose every vote by the people when put on the ballot? Maybe the people that took your poll are a little bias?
 
Really? Because when my son was a first grader, he could see that anti-same-sex marriage laws were wrong!

Racism and Homophobia...both are harmful to equality. How you can separate the two and say they aren't similar is ignorant.

No, what is ignorant is to equate two men getting married to a man and woman who want to have a family. No one defeated Rome; it imploded from within for exactly the kind of twisted reasonings that alows a 60-year-old man to marry an 18-year-old Cambodian kid and move in next door.
 
It's ironic though, since SCOTUS is SUPPOSED to be an activist court. They're job is to interpret the Constitution and make sure laws follow its jurisprudence.

An activist court is one that rules in ways you disagree with. It's one of those laughable terms that is mostly without meaning.
 
That's never been the tradition of marriage in this country, which was based in Christianity from the get-go. I'm not talking about the days in ancient worlds when people traded off their oldest daughter for two pigs and a lamb.

Funny how they always limit a marriage to just this country and basing it on Christianity which this country was based on while completely ignoring the fact that Christianity dates back a couple of thousand years. Yet the church didn't even get involved in marriages until just a few hundred years ago. (1563 to be exact)
 
Separation is irrelevant here, the church is part of the debate whether you like it or not. You can't dismiss their words or actions.

Actually, when it comes to the laws of this country, Yes I can.
 
LOL. Uh, no.

Marriage at its heart is a religious commitment steeped in the tradition of starting a family.

To the shallow and anti-religious, it is a contract to be nullified as soon as a chance to **** someone comes along and you get caught.

:spin: all you like, but anthropology will out. Marriage is a property contract.

Do you dispute the fact women were treated like chattel?
 
Yep, two consenting adults of legal standing.
So... I can marry my grandma and such a relationship is 'equal' to a heterosexual relationship so long as we're both consenting adults?
 
So... I can marry my grandma and such a relationship is 'equal' to a heterosexual relationship so long as we're both consenting adults?

You can give your grandma power of attorney and you can give your grandma total inheritance of your estate. However, if you were having an intimate relationship with your grandma, the state has a vested interest in stopping said relationship due to the genetic issues involved in your procreating with grandma.
 
So... I can marry my grandma and such a relationship is 'equal' to a heterosexual relationship so long as we're both consenting adults?

I wouldn't do it personally, but whatever floats your boat.

Civil rights means protecting the things you hate as well as the things you like.
 
I wouldn't do it personally, but whatever floats your boat.

Civil rights means protecting the things you hate as well as the things you like.
Good luck with that position in the courts. :mrgreen:
 
You can give your grandma power of attorney and you can give your grandma total inheritance of your estate. However, if you were having an intimate relationship with your grandma, the state has a vested interest in stopping said relationship due to the genetic issues involved in your procreating with grandma.
Grandma is too old to procreate.
 
Grandma is too old to procreate.

Supposedly. Stranger things have happened.

And that's beside the point. We have social mores that make it clear that an intimate relationship between and grandparent and grandchild are not acceptable. In fact, I think we have actual laws against it.
 
Grandma is too old to procreate.

Then there is no vested interest for the state to interfere.

I would also like to point out the delta between marriage and children - the two are not dependent on each other.
 
:doh
Did you read the quoted part? Mr.V was clearly talking about the defination and not about changing the law.

Read the OP again. Its about changing the law.
 
It was actually a Supreme Court justice who said that on the topic of hate speech.
I was referring to your position that any "two consenting adults of equal standing" should be allowed to marry, or it is a civil rights issue.

No Supreme Court justice is going to agree with that.
 
Supposedly. Stranger things have happened.

And that's beside the point. We have social mores that make it clear that an intimate relationship between and grandparent and grandchild are not acceptable. In fact, I think we have actual laws against it.
Yes, I agree, not acceptable. Not an infringement on civil rights.
 
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