I have an answer for everything...you may not like the answer or it may not satisfy your curiosity..but it will still be an answer. ~ Kal'Stang
My mind and my heart are saying I'm in my twenties. My body is pointing at my mind and heart and laughing its ass off. ~ Kal'Stang
It's not inherited. Hard-wired personality traits are a function of brain development, prenatal issues, genetics. Sexual orientation is not a choice. Left-handed is not a choice. Low-impulse control, left-brained personalities, right-brained personalities, creativity, gifted, etc. are not a choice.
Foot fetish. Are your familiar with the term? A person who reaches orgasm but having his foot fondled. Seem like 'deviant' behavior? Not if you understand that the genitalia nerves are right next to the foot nerves in the brain, and, to the extent those nerve bunldes may overlap in a person's brain...
Are you starting to understand? You can't control the way your brain is wired. A homosexual can not be rewired for opposite sex attraction. That's the way God made them. And God doesn't make mistakes. So who are we to make their lives miserable just because we don't understand them. Just because they're different.
If a person who is born heterosexual decides to experiment, is that what you mean by "can be a choice"?
Homosexuality - Heterosexuality is a sliding scale, not an either/or. Everyone has a percentage of both in their personality. Experimentation at different ages is normal and common. Especially by people who deny it.