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    Re: Report: Man fathered four with daughter

    In the 80s I had a very close friend who was a very well respected child shrink.

    She saw a massive rise in incest cases, they increased with male unemployment caused by the then recession.

    The role of bread winner had been reversed with more wives going out to work.

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    Re: Report: Man fathered four with daughter

    Quote Originally Posted by B L Zeebub View Post
    In the 80s I had a very close friend who was a very well respected child shrink.

    She saw a massive rise in incest cases, they increased with male unemployment caused by the then recession.

    The role of bread winner had been reversed with more wives going out to work.
    Hmmm...interesting. I haven't seen a rise in instances of incest since the recession, but that does not discount the theory you presented.
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    Re: Report: Man fathered four with daughter

    Quote Originally Posted by CaptainCourtesy View Post
    Denial can be pretty strong with some. This does not surprise me in the least. I've worked with clients who were abused/moletsted/raped by one parent, and the other parent was seemingly oblivious. It's amazing what the mind can convince you of in order to not rock your world.
    I concur, though one case that did make me shudder was of a very violent bully who would return home drunk, and beat then rape his wife, she produced 5 children, two boys and three girls.

    The wife then used these children to slake her husband demands.

    Self preservation is also a powerful tool.

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    Re: Report: Man fathered four with daughter

    Quote Originally Posted by B L Zeebub View Post
    I concur, though one case that did make me shudder was of a very violent bully who would return home drunk, and beat then rape his wife, she produced 5 children, two boys and three girls.

    The wife then used these children to slake her husband demands.

    Self preservation is also a powerful tool.
    Don't even get me started with stories. I once had a client who's father would ground her if she didn't allow him to have sex with her (she was 16); her mother would enforce the grounding even though she "claimed" to be unaware of why the father was grounding her.

    I had another client who's father "passed her around" to his "friends", a little sub-culture of pedophiles.

    There are some disgusting scumbags out there. Sometimes, I wish it was legal to just kill these assholes.
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    Re: Report: Man fathered four with daughter

    Quote Originally Posted by CaptainCourtesy View Post
    Hmmm...interesting. I haven't seen a rise in instances of incest since the recession, but that does not discount the theory you presented.
    I hope you dont, an example.

    The husband was made redundant after 15yrs of proud work, his wife had given up work as a nurse to have two children both girl, she then returned to work to become the bread winner working night shifts.

    He lost all pride and motivation, their sexual life finished.

    He then started to allow the children into his bed at night.

    The abuse started, at no time did he use violent force, in his words he did it lovingly

    He was caught because the elder girl (10yrs) asked a friend (13yrs) if her Dad new how to make her tingle.

    This next statemen is in know way meant to excuse these acts.

    The biggest problem was with the older girl who enjoyed this secret game.
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    Re: Report: Man fathered four with daughter

    Quote Originally Posted by B L Zeebub View Post
    I hope you dont, an example.

    The husband was made redundant after 15yrs of proud work, his wife had given up work as a nurse to have two children both girl, she then returned to work to become the bread winner working night shifts.

    He lost all pride and motivation, their sexual life finished.

    He then started to allow the children into his bed at night.

    The abuse started, at no time did he use violent force, in his words he did it lovingly

    He was caught because the elder girl (10yrs) asked a friend (13yrs) if her Dad new how to make her tingle.

    This next statemen is in know way meant to excuse these acts.

    The biggest problem was with the older girl who enjoyed this secret game.
    One of the biggest problems I have with counseling victims of sexual abuse, is the shame the abused feels if their body reacted in an "excited" or pleasured way. Helping them to understand that one cannot necessarily control how their body reacts is not easy.
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    Re: Report: Man fathered four with daughter

    Quote Originally Posted by CaptainCourtesy View Post

    I had another client who's father "passed her around" to his "friends", a little sub-culture of pedophiles.
    I had a friend who went through that. She was never quite right. Oddly though, she introduced me to a song that was a darkly humorous story of a similar situation. Wonder whatever happened to her.

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    Re: Report: Man fathered four with daughter

    The other thing that interests me, is the number of normal adults of my age and older, who returning from wars (Malaya, Vietnam ect) who seem proud of their use of child prostitutes, yet are horrified if it happens in their own back yard. I wonder why this is

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