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The divorce itself cost 10 of thousands of dollars.
Wow you must have a few assets.
The divorce itself cost 10 of thousands of dollars.
I should have written "acknowledged" or "recognized" instead of transferred.
What federal law states a state must recognize DPs? I've never heard that.
In my case, she wanted out so that she could "establish me", whatever that's supposed to mean.
So I'm left standing there with my 2 boys who need an intact home thinking "wtf, you were supposed to have don that already".
I agree, men and women both get married to young. One difference I think is worth pointing out is that when a man gets married to young, he is far more likely to acclimate to the marriage ad become comfortable with it, while the woman is far more likely to become ever more frustrated.
Maybe this is one reason men are more attracted to slightly older women?
2 boys who need an intact home
Would it be fair to say that women typically get married to young or before they have the chance to grow up a little, and thus make big decisions before they've developed proper judgment to know what they want out of life, out of a man?
I use women here because again, women initiate the vast majority of divorces. I'm not trying to be misogynistic, I'm trying to address the typical example per-se.
I think men AND women get married too young in the U.S., to be frank.
Wait, but then what would you say to my observation on Tuesday that "Department of Health and Human Services data has previously indicated that males aged nineteen and under divorced at a rate of 32.8 per 1,000 married couples in the year 1990, whereas males aged twenty to twenty-four divorced at a higher rate of 50.2, indicating that youth doesn't necessarily serve as an accurate indicator of the capacity to maintain a stable relationship.
Moreover, as the divorce rate increased in this country, so did the average age of marriage. That certainly doesn't imply that there's a causative link between the two, but it does imply that no especially strong causative link exists between youth and higher divorce, or a decrease in divorces would have occurred as the average age of marriage rose if there was."
Do we need to be Californians to register as domestic partners?
No. You and your partner must live at the same address, but you don’t have to live in California.
Will our domestic partnership be valid outside of California?
Yes. Even if you don’t live in California, you and your partner will be domestic partners.
The marriage age is to old. Marriage should start much earlier. That is the way it was in olden days. They did not wait until the people were well into their sexual prime to have them get married.
If they are younger man may learn a little more respect for women then many of them do. This is why women file for more divorces. Men don't seem to have much respect for what women do. She could work harder then he does all day long and when they are home at night the women still takes care of the kids the majority of time and makes the dinners. In every case it is not like this but in a large %.
So if you are a guy that helps out don't get your panties in a knot because I don't mean you.
I would say that women have more economic options when they marry older, and more freedom to leave bad situations.
Are you advocating that people SHOULD marry at 19?
We're not allowed to respect women any more, Feminism put an end to that.
I guess that's the difference between male and female tits. Women get out of citations with them, whereas men do the exact opposite.
We're not allowed to respect women any more, Feminism put an end to that.
If we open a door, we're saying you're weaker than we are. If we verbal object you to dressing sexually, we're oppressing your free speech. If we try to protect our own ****ing children, we're violating your right to bodily sovereignty.
You are always welcome to open the door for me. I never minded that. In my mind that was a sign of respect and not a sign of I am better than you are from men. I think that area we women really screwed up.
I have never come across any female who goes nuts at men holding the door to them. I always smile and say thank you to any male who opens the door.
I personally think that there are some roles women and men are more suited for, that does not mean both genders aren't equal just that .... we're not the same.
I might resemble that comment. :rofl
We are not anywhere close to the same. I agree. Women and men are equal as humanity. We should have the same opportunities and options. Neither side should feel less because of gender.
I don't think I have rune into many women that had a problem with the doors being opened or even a chair being pulled out. I think it was just an excuse by some males to avoid doing the nice things that once were common place.