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Iowa Court says gay marriage ban unconstitutional

Don't give Coolguy's words any thoughts or seriousness. He's just angry because he knows where this country is headed with respect to gay marriage. It's called a tantrum. ;)

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That is incredibly arrogant firstly. To say this country stands for something because you say so is just ridiculous. Secondly using the founding fathers beliefs in an era long past is illogical as well. For example, there are founding fathers that had slaves. Do you support slavery because there are founding fathers who were ok with it? A document that old, regardless of its significance and important content will not completely pertain to modern American civilization.
Arrogant?
Stating that the Founding Fathers new what the Constitution stood for is somehow arrogant?

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Not at all, but in fact, is the truth.

Based on your reply, the reply I quoted is far more arrogant in that the person is stating there own belief as if it factual.
I only pointed out that the founding Fathers had a better understanding of what it stood for than we do today. And yes based on there standards of the time they certainly would not say there was any Constitutional violation.

Secondly, I never said what the Constitution stood for, did I?

As for your 'slaves' argument; It is a topic onto itself.



He's just angry because he knows where this country is headed with respect to gay marriage. It's called a tantrum.
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Tantrum?
Puh...lease. Don't ascribe your juvenile actions to that of others.

Based on your reply you have no idea as to where I actually stand on this issue, do you?
 
Arrogant?
Stating that the Founding Fathers new what the Constitution stood for is somehow arrogant?

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Not at all, but in fact, is the truth.

Based on your reply, the reply I quoted is far more arrogant in that the person is stating there own belief as if it factual.
I only pointed out that the founding Fathers had a better understanding of what it stood for than we do today. And yes based on there standards of the time they certainly would not say there was any Constitutional violation.

Secondly, I never said what the Constitution stood for, did I?

As for your 'slaves' argument; It is a topic onto itself.



I wasn't calling the founding fathers arrogant, I was calling you arrogant for speaking on behalf of these men. I agree that they had a good idea of what they stood for then. And now, in modern history things have changed. I believe that the word of the constitution should be upheld in most cases, but things DO change. Amendments are proof that the document, while well written, wasn't perfect. My slave argument is just an extreme example easy to relate to. In no way am i putting these issues beside each other. These two things show that its an ever-changing document, to make room for social growth.
 
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I wasn't calling the founding fathers arrogant, I was calling you arrogant for speaking on behalf of these men.
There seems to be some misunderstanding here.
I never said you called the Founding Fathers arrogant.

If you can see from my reply it says: "Stating that the Founding Fathers new what the Constitution stood for is somehow arrogant? "
Clearly indicating that I understood that you were referring to what I said.


This is was what you originally replied to.

Not to people who understand what this Country stands for.

America either stands for freedom and equality or it stands for nothing.
Are you saying that the men who formulated, wrote and signed the Constitution would support gay marriage?
I highly doubt it... And they clearly new what this country stands for.
No where did I speak for them.
Stating that they 'knew' what this country stood for is not arrogant but, factual.

Is saying, 'I highly doubt it,' to the question I asked arrogant?
Not when we can surmise, based on the times of our Founding Fathers, that they wouldn't have even contemplated it.

I said nothing arrogant.

But if you couldn't tell, my reply was pointing out the arrogance of the quoted statement: "Not to people who understand what this Country stands for."
Which is far more arrogant than my reply.



I agree that they had a good idea of what they stood for then. And now, in modern history things have changed. I believe that the word of the constitution should be upheld in most cases, but things DO change. Amendments are proof that the document, while well written, wasn't perfect.
Agreed.


My slave argument is just an extreme example easy to relate to. In no way am i putting these issues beside each other. These two things show that its an ever-changing document, to make room for social growth.
Yes, but not to continue the 'slavery' discussion, some of the Founding Fathers are on record as to not truly supporting it. Which is why, to me, your comparison doesn't fly.
 
Tantrum?
Puh...lease. Don't ascribe your juvenile actions to that of others.

Based on your reply you have no idea as to where I actually stand on this issue, do you?

I have seen your posts long enough to make that assessment. You don't have to agree with it. *shrugs shoulders*

I have a very good guess on where you stand on the issue. If I am wrong, so be it. I don't mind being wrong, particularly on this issue. I would love to think that you support gay people being able to get married.
 
I have seen your posts long enough to make that assessment.
Everything you have just written says you haven't.
Nor should you have gotten personal. (Which of course I will freely give reply.)



I have a very good guess on where you stand on the issue. If I am wrong, so be it. I don't mind being wrong, particularly on this issue. I would love to think that you support gay people being able to get married.
A guess is all you have? An assumption?
Hmmmm?

I have stated my opinion on the subject a few times on this forum and in this thread.

You can say you assumed or knew all you want, but your lack of stating my position just shows that you have not read enough of my posts to determine anything about me.

My position is:
I do not oppose, but actively support Civil Unions, (just as many gays who oppose marriage do) with all 'rights' and privileges that any union has.

It is not an 'equal rights' or a discrimination issue, but the creation of a new 'right', which is not needed.

Marriage is a term used to describe the union between those of the opposite gender and should not be usurped by the homosexual community to get the same status and privileges, especially when a same gender union is different from an opposite gender union. (Which also means I support those who have had SRS being allowed to legally change their gender and therefore be allowed to marry a person of the opposite (previously same) gender if they so choose.)
Every person, whether homosexual, heterosexual, etc... has the same 'right'.
There is no discrimination in that and no separate but equal doctrine that could be struck down. .


People of any sexual preference are allowed, in the U.S., to marry someone of the opposite gender.
This is the 'right' that all have. It is equal in that it applies to all, regardless of race or sexual preference. (Of course with caveats. e.g. Age, relationship etc...)
Homosexuals willingly and freely partake in this 'right'.


The real argument being made is that homosexual couples want the same privileges and amenities that come with state sanctioned marriage.
There is no reason that they shouldn't have these.

They just do not need to usurp and try to redefine the term marriage to fit their purposes.
 
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Everything you have just written says you haven't.
Nor should you have gotten personal. (Which of course I will freely give reply.)



A guess is all you have? An assumption?
Hmmmm?

I have stated my opinion on the subject a few times on this forum and in this thread.

You can say you assumed or knew all you want, but your lack of stating my position just shows that you have not read enough of my posts to determine anything about me.

My position is:
I do not oppose, but actively support Civil Unions, (just as many gays who oppose marriage do) with all 'rights' and privileges that any union has.

It is not an 'equal rights' or a discrimination issue, but the creation of a new 'right', which is not needed.

Marriage is a term used to describe the union between those of the opposite gender and should not be usurped by the homosexual community to get the same status and privileges, especially when a same gender union is different from an opposite gender union. (Which also means I support those who have had SRS being allowed to legally change their gender and therefore be allowed to marry a person of the opposite (previously same) gender if they so choose.)




Coolguy, I was wrong about you, and I apologize. :3oops: Thank you for providing me with your thoughts on this issue. They are very well thought out and well reasoned. :2wave:
 
Hmmm?
You almost had me speechless.
So I'll just say that based on your reply, I guess my reserved opinion of you was wrong too.
 
My position is:
I do not oppose, but actively support Civil Unions, (just as many gays who oppose marriage do) with all 'rights' and privileges that any union has.​


The idea of Civil Unions has multiple problems.

The first would be that having separate institutions for marriage and civil unions are unequal. In implementation this has already happened, I think it was New Jersey and Vermont that had cases of civil unions being treated unequally compared to marriage.

It seems to be a waste of energy. I have never seen evidence that a majority of the opponents of same-sex marriage would support civil unions for all or even civil unions for homosexuals. In fact I would say that the evidence indicates otherwise as some states that banned same-sex marriage also banned marriage like institutions for same-sex couples.

It is also a waste of time and energy if they would be equal. If the only difference between the two institutions was the name then it seems like a waste of time to bother making two institutions and rather just include same-sex couples into marriage.

It is not an 'equal rights' or a discrimination issue, but the creation of a new 'right', which is not needed.

Yes, it is same-sex couples are being discriminated against. On an individual level people are being discriminated against based on their sexuality and gender.

Marriage is a term used to describe the union between those of the opposite gender and should not be usurped by the homosexual community to get the same status and privileges,

This seems like a bad reason to object to marriage for homosexuals considering that there have been many definitions of marriage over time and even in the US what marriage is has changed over time. We've seen that the definition of marriage can be changed, so why is this time any different.

especially when a same gender union is different from an opposite gender union.

In what relevant way?​
 
The idea of Civil Unions has multiple problems.
The problem resided in recognition. Not with the union itself.
If Civil Unions had the same 'rights' and privileges guaranteed. There would be no problem.

To obtain recognition through the usurpation of the term marriage, is the wrong way to go.



It seems to be a waste of energy. I have never seen evidence that a majority of the opponents of same-sex marriage would support civil unions for all or even civil unions for homosexuals. In fact I would say that the evidence indicates otherwise as some states that banned same-sex marriage also banned marriage like institutions for same-sex couples.
I am not big on states rights when it comes to the treatment of the people as a whole. That is when I believe the Fed has a duty to step in and make law.


It is also a waste of time and energy if they would be equal. If the only difference between the two institutions was the name then it seems like a waste of time to bother making two institutions and rather just include same-sex couples into marriage.
Not at all.
They both receive a Contract of Union, same gender couples get to call theirs a Civil Union and opposite gender couples get to call theirs a Marriage.
Same recognition, but different in name only because of the difference in the genders involved.

Like said: "I find it funny that the homosexual community wants to be respected, but in turn, show great disrespect in their attempted efforts to get there."

It is very disrespectful for the homosexual community to try and usurp the term.



This seems like a bad reason to object to marriage for homosexuals considering that there have been many definitions of marriage over time and even in the US what marriage is has changed over time. We've seen that the definition of marriage can be changed, so why is this time any different.
Yep, marriage used to be a contract of ownership rather than union.
But historically, and for the vast majority of all occurrences, it has always been between a man and a woman.
A few occurrences of same gender unions usurping the term Marriage does not supplant what it means, or shows that it has changed.



In what relevant way?
You ask in what relevant way.
What may be relevant to some may not be relevant to others.
The main difference though was stated.
Different gender versus same gender. That clearly isn't the same.
 
Also. the freedom to practice NO religion. That negates the absolute need for religion. This need is subjective. What isn't subjective is the right to practice or not practice religion.
Captain, need I remind you that the position of "no religion" is itself a religious position, and thus, paradoxically, "'NO' religion" is still religion?

You can disclaim the need for a sacred text -- that is a religious statement.

You can deny the existence of a Deity -- that is a religious statement.

You can deny that anything beyond the empirical world of the senses exists -- that is a religious statement.

When you make religious statements, you are practicing religion.

What unites the Atheist with the Fundamentalist is their fervent faith in their own beliefs; one is neither more nor less religious than the other.
 
China is coming up. Russia was doing well for awhile. Most free counties have religion because they allow their people to choose. The only way to have an "atheist" society is to deny religion, it's actually anti-theism and is as dangerous as theocracy IMO to freedom. That's what the best government is secular, then the people can choose for themselves their own religion. I like having all sorts of different religions around...it's a good sign of freedom.
Hmm, that's interesting. What source did you use to come to this opinion?
 
Hmm, that's interesting. What source did you use to come to this opinion?

I used the fact that the communist regimes forcibly suppress the expression and establishment of religion and actively discourage the engagement in religion. Atheism has no such tenet (it has no tenets in fact, other than there being no god). Atheism doesn't seek destruction of other religions, it's merely a philosophy of itself. Anti-theism, on the other hand, is just as described. It's the active search to destroy religion as it can be practiced by the people, it's completely different than atheism.

If you want to talk about "true" atheist governments, I would say the closest you can come is that of a secular government. One in which no religion is promoted or disparaged.
 
I think everyone who has a problem with the argument presented by CoolGuy and myself need to spend some time on DemocraticUnderground.com

I know of no other site where you can agree, but in a different way, and be flamed up one side and down the other simply because your opinion doesn't perfectly match the stamped and approved cookie-cutter opinion.

CoolGuy and I are not arguing against gay-marriage here. We are only pointing out that gay-marriage is not a civil rights issue.
 
CoolGuy and I are not arguing against gay-marriage here. We are only pointing out that gay-marriage is not a civil rights issue.
Nor is it justiciable, to borrow Rehnquist's vernacular.

Courts are not where this issue should be decided; they are not competent to resolve such issues.
 
I used the fact that the communist regimes forcibly suppress the expression and establishment of religion and actively discourage the engagement in religion. Atheism has no such tenet (it has no tenets in fact, other than there being no god). Atheism doesn't seek destruction of other religions, it's merely a philosophy of itself. Anti-theism, on the other hand, is just as described. It's the active search to destroy religion as it can be practiced by the people, it's completely different than atheism.

If you want to talk about "true" atheist governments, I would say the closest you can come is that of a secular government. One in which no religion is promoted or disparaged.

Rockbiter: Near my home there used to be a beautiful lake, but then it was gone.

Tiny: Did the lake dry up?

Rockbiter: No, it just wasn't there anymore. Nothing was there anymore. Not even a dried up lake.

Tiny: A hole ?

Rockbiter: No, a hole would be something. Nah, it was nothing. And it got bigger and bigger. First there was no lake anymore and then finally, no rocks.

Nighthob: Hah! If he keeps stuffing his face like that, soon there won't be any rocks left here either! (Nighthob complains to the little man. As he starts to walk away, the little man grabs him.)

Tiny: Nighthob, this could be serious! Rockbiter, what you have told us is also occurring where I live in the west ! A strange sort of Nothing is destroying everything.
 
Rockbiter: Near my home there used to be a beautiful lake, but then it was gone.

Tiny: Did the lake dry up?

Rockbiter: No, it just wasn't there anymore. Nothing was there anymore. Not even a dried up lake.

Tiny: A hole ?

Rockbiter: No, a hole would be something. Nah, it was nothing. And it got bigger and bigger. First there was no lake anymore and then finally, no rocks.

Nighthob: Hah! If he keeps stuffing his face like that, soon there won't be any rocks left here either! (Nighthob complains to the little man. As he starts to walk away, the little man grabs him.)

Tiny: Nighthob, this could be serious! Rockbiter, what you have told us is also occurring where I live in the west ! A strange sort of Nothing is destroying everything.

Is there a point here or are you bitching about me answering someone's question?
 
Is there a point here or are you bitching about me answering someone's question?

I was making a movie reference to back up the concept of your argument :2wave:
 
Don't forget Atheism and Humanism.

People practice them, thus reiterating the human need for religion. Every human has a spiritual dimension and a spiritual perspective. It is the order of things.
Ah, no. I don't care what the religious say, atheism is not a religion and atheists don't "practice" atheism.
 
I prefer Pizza based theology, you start with the minimum, cheeses, sauce, crust, then add the toppings you desire...
That sounds like xianity. Start with the bearded old man in the sky and add the toppings you desire.
 
  • Charles Carroll Maryland Catholic
  • Samuel Huntington Connecticut Congregationalist
  • Roger Sherman Connecticut Congregationalist
  • William Williams Connecticut Congregationalist
  • Oliver Wolcott Connecticut Congregationalist
  • Lyman Hall Georgia Congregationalist
  • Samuel Adams Massachusetts Congregationalist
  • John Hancock Massachusetts Congregationalist
  • Josiah Bartlett New Hampshire Congregationalist
  • William Whipple New Hampshire Congregationalist
  • William Ellery Rhode Island Congregationalist
  • John Adams Massachusetts Congregationalist; Unitarian
  • Robert Treat Paine Massachusetts Congregationalist; Unitarian
  • George Walton Georgia Episcopalian
  • John Penn North Carolina Episcopalian
  • George Ross Pennsylvania Episcopalian
  • Thomas Heyward Jr. South Carolina Episcopalian
  • Thomas Lynch Jr. South Carolina Episcopalian
  • Arthur Middleton South Carolina Episcopalian
  • Edward Rutledge South Carolina Episcopalian
  • Francis Lightfoot Lee Virginia Episcopalian
  • Richard Henry Lee Virginia Episcopalian
  • George Read Delaware Episcopalian
  • Caesar Rodney Delaware Episcopalian
  • Samuel Chase Maryland Episcopalian
  • William Paca Maryland Episcopalian
  • Thomas Stone Maryland Episcopalian
  • Elbridge Gerry Massachusetts Episcopalian
  • Francis Hopkinson New Jersey Episcopalian
  • Francis Lewis New York Episcopalian
  • Lewis Morris New York Episcopalian
  • William Hooper North Carolina Episcopalian
  • Robert Morris Pennsylvania Episcopalian
  • John Morton Pennsylvania Episcopalian
  • Stephen Hopkins Rhode Island Episcopalian
  • Carter Braxton Virginia Episcopalian
  • Benjamin Harrison Virginia Episcopalian
  • Thomas Nelson Jr. Virginia Episcopalian
  • George Wythe Virginia Episcopalian
  • Thomas Jefferson Virginia Episcopalian (Deist)
  • Benjamin Franklin Pennsylvania Episcopalian (Deist)
  • Button Gwinnett Georgia Episcopalian; Congregationalist
  • James Wilson Pennsylvania Episcopalian; Presbyterian
  • Joseph Hewes North Carolina Quaker, Episcopalian
  • George Clymer Pennsylvania Quaker, Episcopalian
  • Thomas McKean Delaware Presbyterian
  • Matthew Thornton New Hampshire Presbyterian
  • Abraham Clark New Jersey Presbyterian
  • John Hart New Jersey Presbyterian
  • Richard Stockton New Jersey Presbyterian
  • John Witherspoon New Jersey Presbyterian
  • William Floyd New York Presbyterian
  • Philip Livingston New York Presbyterian
  • James Smith Pennsylvania Presbyterian
  • George Taylor Pennsylvania Presbyterian
  • Benjamin Rush Pennsylvania Presbyterian
Would you say that all of those men were as important to the founding of our nation as Franklin, Adams, Jefferson, Pain, Alexander and a few others?

It's important to note that all of the Founding Fathers followed Christian doctrine for rules on how to conduct ones self, for it was so intertwined with the society. Benjamin Franklin probably explains it best when he, to paraphrase, said that although he is unsure of whether God exists or not, he felt it was better to believe in Christianity and the Christian God than not to, for the Christian teachings prevented moral anarchy. Thus, our nation was founded on Christian principles because the Founding Generation recognized the value in them to create a moral, virtuous society.
IMHO, the important thing to note is that "religion" was so ingrained in the concept of society that they made such statements. Franklin only ASSUMES that society is better to believe in xianity than no religion because he had no actual experience with a society without it. Do you think HE would say the same thing today?

Even Thomas Jefferson, who is today often mistaken for a Deist or an atheist, said when speaking of Jesus' teachings in the NT,

"A more beautiful or precious morsel of ethics I have never seen. It is a document in proof that I am a real Christian, that is to say, a disciple of the doctrines of Jesus"
He is not mistaken as a deist, he was a deist who couldn't wrap his mind around a society without those teachings of Jesus. Even though Asia had the most advanced society without the teachings of Jesus. Regardless, it's obvious that he disagreed with the divinity, and miraculous notions in the bible; which is why he created his own bible.

Jefferson's admonitions of Catholicism and what he saw as Platonic influence on Christianity should not be seen as a dismissal by Jefferson of Christianity as a whole.
I disagree completely and the vast majority of his writings on the subject paint a clear picture of his belief and it's dilemma.
While running for President, Jefferson had to defend himself against charges that he was an atheist because there were laws throughout the country at that time that did not permit atheists, or anyone who did not practice Christian morality, to hold office.
Exactly... the politician in him forced him to say things to hide his true feelings. His public statements seem to endorse religion while his private correspondence exhibited his disdain for it.
 
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