Its not about imposing "will" its about recognizing that America stands for equal protection in that same way giving blacks civil rights or women the right to vote was not about imposing "will".
Screaming "I want"....that is those who say "I want to impose my view of marriage on everyone else." Those of us who support gay marriage don't "want" to impose that view on anyone who doesn't believe in it. People who don't support gay marriage are still free to their beliefs, they just won't be able to impose their "wants" on everyone else.
"Demonizing the beliefs and ideals of others"? Pul-lease!
As I said...people are still free to have their beliefs, they just cannot impose their beliefs on everyone else.
If everyone would just adhere to the simple belief that "You right to your beliefs extend until they impinge on anothers"...the world would be a much better place.