My point is that integrating females into infantry units reduces combat effectiveness resulting in higher casualties, concentrated in the females (from injury), but including the males, who now face an enemy with a relative advantage.
If we make this change, we are saying that we are willing to have 19 year old males die so that 19 year old females can self-actualize by serving in the infantry. If that's what the people want, that's what they're going to get, but we should make the choice honestly, and with open eyes.
Unlike you, I have actually served with females in war zones. I have seen fantastic female Marines and I have seen crappy female Marines, just as I have seen fantastic and crappy male Marines. I have fought for female Marines to get meritoriously promoted, put them in positions of high-profile responsibility, and helped them where appropriate to break barriers (for example, I played a small role in helping one of the Female Marines I had served with become the first of her job field in a particular Special Operations role). No one is saying they don't belong in a war zone (war zones are things like "Afghanistan" and "Iraq"), we need females in warzones. I am saying that integrating them into the infantry degrades the combat effectiveness of the infantry, resulting in increased casualties and reduced ability to overcome the enemy.
:shrug: no one is saying they can't serve.
Not in the infantry it isn't - you are depending on that individual next to in front of and behind you. War isn't an individual effort - it's a team sport.
Imagine, for example, being on a football team, and suddenly two of your offensive linemen have to leave the field, but you can't replace them. Now imagine, that the loser of this football game gets shot. Combat is more like that than your job. Losing teammates to injury reduces the combat power you can bring to bear against the injury as much as losing them to enemy action does, and doing so increases the chances of follow-on casualties.