So what exactly is your fear again?
"A woman is like a teabag, you never know how strong she is until she gets in hot water." - Eleanor Roosevelt
Keep your religion out of other people's marriages.
Added: Reading the HuPo article they cite several of the 'unarmed' cases. 3 of the ones they discuss show individuals fighting with cops and being shot during the altercation and at least one was involved in a felony hit and run with the cop by running over his foot and trying to escape in a vehicle.
Not saying there werent some unrighteous shootings...but when you pin your star to Mike Brown...well...