Judging by your response to me, I imagine that no, you do not understand the difference.
Why this is so hard for a number of prochoicers to understand about our community (the disability community) is certainly mystifying, but not surprising. People with disabilities find this rhetoric utterly demeaning, because we do not speak this way about other human beings. A lot of us are prochoice, but we do not tolerate demeaning rhetoric about us.
Good thing that is not what's being discussed here.
Turning this around on us to mean that you have to bash people with disabilities to fulfill some innocuous discussion of choice and the force of government on a woman is crap. It's simply the bashing of people like us with disabilities.
Now I'm bashing people with disabilities? Seriously? Do you have a reading comprehension problem?
I suggest you reread the thread title, because the "crap" you refer to is, in fact, the topic.