Wishful ? If you can find anyone better qualified to comment then I'm all ears
Thats the whole point isn't it ? The great bulk of Ukrainians would want this too especially in light of current events
Its not Russia's remit to decide the internal affair of its neighbours and hasn't been with Ukraine since its independence in 1991 She is also in breach of treaties she signed guaranteeing the sovereignty and integrity of European states
According to Article I of the Helsinki Final Act which established the Organisation for Security and Cooperation in Europe (OSCE) in 1975, every country has the right "to belong or not to belong to international organizations, to be or not to be a party to bilateral or multilateral treaties including the right to be or not to be a party to treaties of alliance." All the OSCE member states, including
Russia, have sworn to uphold those principles.
In line with those principles, Ukraine has the right to choose for itself whether it joins any treaty of alliance, including NATO's founding treaty.
Moreover, when
Russia signed the Founding Act, it pledged to uphold "respect for sovereignty, independence and territorial integrity of all states and their inherent right to choose the means to ensure their own security".
Thus Ukraine has the right to choose its own alliances, and Russia has, by its own repeated agreement, no right to dictate that choice.
Helsinki Final Act | OSCE
Russia is also in breach of article 2 the UN charter too
https://treaties.un.org/doc/publication/ctc/uncharter.pdf