You haven't responded to any of the actual constitutional arguments the judges are making. You're just declaring them to be wrong. When people point out that literally dozens of judges agree the constitution requires this, you just handwave it. You say it's an appeal to authority but don't provide any rebuttal.
What state interest is served by denying homosexuals the right to marriage? Because that's the test the 14th amendment requires. You might wish it didn't, but that's the deal.