Do you know what those distinguishing attributes are?
Imho, when we say that certain acts will cause you to do time, that is a message of discouragement.
In your opinion, sending someone to jail for an act sends the message that that act is "ok"?
What do we have to do for you to understand that a message is a message of discouragement?
Slaughter their family and sell their children into slavery?
Or maybe not. You seem quite apt to use it. Perhaps you're already well-versed.
Texans may hold a different view of getting drunk and acting a fool than you are I do.