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Judge strikes down Wisconsin gay marriage ban[W:287:411]

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even though it was slow enough to be imperceptible except in retrospect.




More important..... than what?

More important than the world changing, of course. Change is an unstoppable force. You may as well oppose continental drift or a hurricane. How you choose to live your own life in the face of that change is what defines you, not how somebody else chooses to live their own lives.
 
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More important than the world changing, of course. Chance is an unstoppable force. You may as well oppose continental drift or a hurricane. How you choose to live your own life in the face of that change is what defines you, not how somebody else chooses to live their own lives.

I'll have to remember that the next time republicans are proposing changes liberals don't like.
 
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I'll have to remember that the next time republicans are proposing changes liberals don't like.

That's really not what I'm talking about. I'm not talking about proposals of some such law or another, but about societal change as a whole: values, mores, fashion, you know...real zeitgeist stuff. Only rarely do individuals, or even a handful of individuals change this sort of thing. And sometimes even entire populations can't stop a changing world.
 
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I think the advent of homosexual marriage is the beginning of the end of marriage as an important societal institution. I, too, think it won't be in my lifetime but the institution of marriage is disintegrating and being reformed as a cohabitational agreement between any two (maybe more?) people. Maybe that's how society is evolving and maybe that's what's needed but it's very strange to me.

how's that work? is any marriage less beneficial to people then it used to be because same sex couples can get hitched?
 
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I'll have to remember that the next time republicans are proposing changes liberals don't like.

So long as those 'changes' are constitutional Republicans should propose more salient legislation...They do so so rarely these days.
 
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That's really not what I'm talking about. I'm not talking about proposals of some such law or another, but about societal change as a whole: values, mores, fashion, you know...real zeitgeist stuff.

In that regard, opposing change is very important. I think opposition to change is healthy and necessary for change to occur in the most positive fashion. This was the philosophical problem with Obama's campaign slogan that went right over most people's heads. Change for the sake of change is not necessarily beneficial.
 
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how's that work? is any marriage less beneficial to people then it used to be because same sex couples can get hitched?

Possibly. If it is nothing more than a tax loophole for any two people, then it would be less beneficial to "the people".
 
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In that regard, opposing change is very important. I think opposition to change is healthy and necessary for change to occur in the most positive fashion. This was the philosophical problem with Obama's campaign slogan that went right over most people's heads. Change for the sake of change is not necessarily beneficial.

You mean "hope" and "change?" Those are campaign slogans, you're not actually supposed to pay attention to them. But back on topic, change isn't always positive, sometimes it's just neutral. I would put fashion in that category in a way because even though more eighties fashions have come back, I'm not legally required to wear 80's clothing myself. Now I, individually, could work to stop that change in fashion, but of course most would agree it's futile and a silly use of my energy besides, especially seeing as I'm not required to wear that clothing. It only affects me insofar as I mentally allow it to.
 
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Possibly. If it is nothing more than a tax loophole for any two people, then it would be less beneficial to "the people".

but marriage was already possibly nothing more then a tax loophole wasn't it?
 
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Marriage has been considered to be between a man and woman since it came into existence.

That is simply not true.

It may not affect a specific marriage, but it would be deceitful to claim expanding it to include relationships outside the traditional bounds of the institution is not changing marriage.

Marriage has changed several times throughout history. We are still good.

This is about changing the fundamental accepted meaning of something that has been in existence for thousands of years.

Nope..still not true.

Arguing that a legal document written 150 years ago actually requires a significant change in the millennia-old meaning of marriage is dishonest and rooted in partisan belief rather than sound legal theory. Changes of such a fundamental nature to such a central institution should be based on the approval of society, rather than the whims of activists in robes.

Here is the thing. Those robes are the line of defense against the idea that the majority can create a government that oppress the minority. They are doing exactly what the founders intended.


Many states have approved it and many countries have approved it. One can safely say that it is only a matter of time before every state approves it through the legislature or a referendum. I consider that a good thing. Hijacking the constitution for one's political agenda is not something I consider good, however.

no one is hijacking anything.
 
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Well, that's just incorrect on several levels. First, you can't know how frequently marriage has happened for same sex couples throughout history.

Legal marriage? No evidence of it ever occurring or being endorsed by any government until very recently. There are a few stories at certain points in history that sort of relate to it, but do not indicate it was seen as a legal marriage equivalent to that of a marriage between a man and a woman. All indications are that legal gay marriage is really a 20th Century invention that only came into practice in the 21st Century.

Second, we know that's demonstrably untrue because marriage has in fact been considered to be between people of the same gender for some years now

For a little over a decade. Obviously, that is not an argument for it being an old or traditional concept.

third, your use of the singular makes your statement fall apart right at the outset due to polygamous marriages.

Even polygamous marriages were generally taken as between man and woman, just there were other women who had the same relationship with the man.

Same sex marriage won't change my marriage anymore than allowing couples of mixed races to marry ended up changing the marriages of couples of the same race.

I did not say it would change any individual person's marriage, but it does change marriage generally as it moves marriage away from its traditional orientation as between a man and woman. Allowing mixed-race marriages does not change marriage because it was still man and woman and it was hardly as though there was no historical precedent for it. Marriage between people of different races was commonplace in many parts of the world for pretty much as long as marriage has existed. One cannot say the same for same-sex marriage.

Even accepting that that meaning has been influid over thousands of years (and believe me, I'm not), change happens. And thank god, too, because humanity has had a lot of practices that needed to go, such as slavery and human sacrifice to name just a couple. It's good that we can as a race eventually review practices and beliefs we've steadfastly held for so long and determined they no longer fit in the modern world.

I do not think not recognizing gay marriages under the law is akin to allowing slavery or human sacrifice, but then I'm not a partisan. Still, the last point is kind of what I am getting at. This is not reviewing it as a race, but getting some activists to appeal it to some partisan judges and thus forcing the rest of society to go along with their dictates.

I'm not, and in fact I don't think anybody is arguing for an amendment to the constitution as it's not necessary.

Natch, why bother when you can just get judges to make **** up and achieve the same result? All that talk of "we as a race" reviewing this matter? Pish posh, just let some clearly "impartial" judges decide for us. They do have degrees and are much, much smarter than us after all.

Also, unless you're referring to a different document, the constitution was written in 1787 making it a wee bit older than 150 years.

I figured someone would ignorantly try and be a smart ass about "150 years", when my reference is, of course, to the 14th Amendment that serves as the basis for the equal protection claims. The Bill of Rights and original form of the Constitution are not the basis of these legal rulings.

Well, it's funny you say that, because Supreme Court rulings do tend to reflect changing social mores, actually.

What are the social mores in Utah?

That being said, tyranny of the majority is one of the reasons why we have a constitution, so as to prevent the masses from restricting the rights of the minority without due cause.

Yes, but this is not one of those cases. There is no "tyranny" involved here or any "rights" in danger. People do not have a right to government handouts or a right to legal recognition of their relationship status. Any actual rights that come with legal marriage can be exercised without it. People can designate beneficiaries, share property, and share custody of children, without needing a marriage contract.

While there is no doubt that at least a few same sex couples are getting married as an expression of a political agenda, most people just want to get married for the same reasons you and I want to.

Uh, what? Who said anything about people getting married for a political agenda? I am talking about the various groups and individuals using the courts to force legal recognition of gay marriage on the rest of society.
 
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Legal marriage? No evidence of it ever occurring or being endorsed by any government until very recently. There are a few stories at certain points in history that sort of relate to it, but do not indicate it was seen as a legal marriage equivalent to that of a marriage between a man and a woman. All indications are that legal gay marriage is really a 20th Century invention that only came into practice in the 21st Century.

In isolated places (i.e. before fast communication, printed press, fast travel, etc.) even the topic of gay marriage is going to be rare as hell, given that the percentage of gay people never hits much higher than the 5% neighborhood. Historically speaking it doesn't seem like a big thing to be recorded for generations. So naturally there are only going to be, as you say, "a few stories at certain points in history." The difference between then and now is that we know a lot more about what's going on in the world than people did then, and we know now that homosexuality is normal and common.

For a little over a decade. Obviously, that is not an argument for it being an old or traditional concept.

Sorry, you can't have your cake and eat it too. You can't talk about the importance of history and tradition, only to then cherry pick the history and tradition that you think supports your argument. History is history, and we're living it.

Even polygamous marriages were generally taken as between man and woman, just there were other women who had the same relationship with the man.

Your attempt to take polygamous marriage and try to use verbal acrobatics to somehow frame it as still being monogamous did not work.

I did not say it would change any individual person's marriage, but it does change marriage generally as it moves marriage away from its traditional orientation as between a man and woman. Allowing mixed-race marriages does not change marriage because it was still man and woman and it was hardly as though there was no historical precedent for it. Marriage between people of different races was commonplace in many parts of the world for pretty much as long as marriage has existed. One cannot say the same for same-sex marriage.

It's an arbitrary line in the sand. There were people who believed mixed race marriages would be the ruin of the institution. They were wrong.
I do not think not recognizing gay marriages under the law is akin to allowing slavery or human sacrifice, but then I'm not a partisan. Still, the last point is kind of what I am getting at. This is not reviewing it as a race, but getting some activists to appeal it to some partisan judges and thus forcing the rest of society to go along with their dictates.

Never said it was akin to allowing slavery or human sacrifice, just that when you use the tradition argument you have to take into consideration every tradition we've had throughout history. If you don't want to do that, then you can't use the tradition argument. Again, you can't have your cake and eat it too. And as I'm sure has been pointed out to you in one form or another infinity times, nobody is forcing you to go along with anything.

Natch, why bother when you can just get judges to make **** up and achieve the same result? All that talk of "we as a race" reviewing this matter? Pish posh, just let some clearly "impartial" judges decide for us. They do have degrees and are much, much smarter than us after all.

Do you have a problem with the way our government is set up? Those judges exist to review the constitutionality of laws. If those laws are unconstitutional, then the judges are going to rule against them. Else why have a constitution if you're not going to have a system in place for upholding it?

I figured someone would ignorantly try and be a smart ass about "150 years", when my reference is, of course, to the 14th Amendment that serves as the basis for the equal protection claims. The Bill of Rights and original form of the Constitution are not the basis of these legal rulings.

The original form of the constitution can blow me, seeing as women weren't allowed to vote then and black people could be traded as property. Or do you now have a problem with all the amendments?

What are the social mores in Utah?

Who cares? The social mores of the United States is changing in that it's growing accepting of same sex marriage, and if it becomes legal in all fifty states, guess what: homophobes in Utah will still be allowed to be homophobes. No one can force anybody to accept gay marriage.

Yes, but this is not one of those cases. There is no "tyranny" involved here or any "rights" in danger. People do not have a right to government handouts or a right to legal recognition of their relationship status. Any actual rights that come with legal marriage can be exercised without it. People can designate beneficiaries, share property, and share custody of children, without needing a marriage contract.

Then you don't understand the discussion.

Uh, what? Who said anything about people getting married for a political agenda? I am talking about the various groups and individuals using the courts to force legal recognition of gay marriage on the rest of society.

Link to me a story of two heterosexual people of the same gender being forced to marry each other and we'll talk, otherwise your statement is nonsense.
 
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:roll: The reference is to the whole "we at war with Eastasia, we have always been at war with Eastasia" bit in 1984. What is Orwellian is suddenly deciding that an amendment made to the constitution nearly 150 years ago has actually always meant that gay marriage must get legal recognition from the government.

No, that's not Orwellian. You are invoking oppression where there is none.
 
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but marriage was already possibly nothing more then a tax loophole wasn't it?

Possibly? I think any opinion is possible and that's what this all comes down to.
 
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Possibly? I think any opinion is possible and that's what this all comes down to.

no I mean a man and a woman could get married for tax related reasons all ready couldn't they? so how's same sex couples doing it change the value of other marriages or marriage itself?
 
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no I mean a man and a woman could get married for tax related reasons all ready couldn't they? so how's same sex couples doing it change the value of other marriages or marriage itself?

I see.... but I don't go along with the argument that "any" justifies "all". The fact that some might do it today doesn't justify opening the floodgates to everyone.
 
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I see.... but I don't go along with the argument that "any" justifies "all". The fact that some might do it today doesn't justify opening the floodgates to everyone.

then im still not seeing how gay marriage signals the end of marriage as an important social institution

when it crates no new exploitations

and only helps more couples and family's
 
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then im still not seeing how gay marriage signals the end of marriage as an important social institution

when it crates no new exploitations

and only helps more couples and family's

I disagree. Ultimately, it seems to be headed to the point of being irrelevant and once irrelevant, why support it with sanction? I think the current course, if maintained will see marriage wither away to an obscure social tradition eventually, provided society lasts long enough taking it's current course.
 
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I disagree. Ultimately, it seems to be headed to the point of being irrelevant and once irrelevant, why support it with sanction? I think the current course, if maintained will see marriage wither away to an obscure social tradition eventually, provided society lasts long enough taking it's current course.

unless marge stops conferring rights and benefits how's it become less relevent?

if anything things like civil unions would be more of a threat as they supposedly would be competing institutions for such things
 
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Legal marriage? No evidence of it ever occurring or being endorsed by any government until very recently. There are a few stories at certain points in history that sort of relate to it, but do not indicate it was seen as a legal marriage equivalent to that of a marriage between a man and a woman. All indications are that legal gay marriage is really a 20th Century invention that only came into practice in the 21st Century.



For a little over a decade. Obviously, that is not an argument for it being an old or traditional concept.



Even polygamous marriages were generally taken as between man and woman, just there were other women who had the same relationship with the man.



I did not say it would change any individual person's marriage, but it does change marriage generally as it moves marriage away from its traditional orientation as between a man and woman. Allowing mixed-race marriages does not change marriage because it was still man and woman and it was hardly as though there was no historical precedent for it. Marriage between people of different races was commonplace in many parts of the world for pretty much as long as marriage has existed. One cannot say the same for same-sex marriage.



I do not think not recognizing gay marriages under the law is akin to allowing slavery or human sacrifice, but then I'm not a partisan. Still, the last point is kind of what I am getting at. This is not reviewing it as a race, but getting some activists to appeal it to some partisan judges and thus forcing the rest of society to go along with their dictates.



Natch, why bother when you can just get judges to make **** up and achieve the same result? All that talk of "we as a race" reviewing this matter? Pish posh, just let some clearly "impartial" judges decide for us. They do have degrees and are much, much smarter than us after all.



I figured someone would ignorantly try and be a smart ass about "150 years", when my reference is, of course, to the 14th Amendment that serves as the basis for the equal protection claims. The Bill of Rights and original form of the Constitution are not the basis of these legal rulings.



What are the social mores in Utah?



Yes, but this is not one of those cases. There is no "tyranny" involved here or any "rights" in danger. People do not have a right to government handouts or a right to legal recognition of their relationship status. Any actual rights that come with legal marriage can be exercised without it. People can designate beneficiaries, share property, and share custody of children, without needing a marriage contract.



Uh, what? Who said anything about people getting married for a political agenda? I am talking about the various groups and individuals using the courts to force legal recognition of gay marriage on the rest of society.

Cardinal is correct, same sex marriage or unions has been happening for eons.

History of same-sex unions - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia

Amongst the Romans, there were instances of same-sex marriages being performed, as evidenced by emperors Nero who married an unwilling young boy [20][21][22] and (possibly - though it is doubted by many historians) the child emperor Elagabalus,[23] who both supposedly married a man, and by its outlaw in 342 AD in the Theodosian Code,[24] but the exact intent of the law and its relation to social practice is unclear, as only a few examples of same-sex marriage in that culture exist
 
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unless marge stops conferring rights and benefits how's it become less relevent?

if anything things like civil unions would be more of a threat as they supposedly would be competing institutions for such things

I agree. That's why Ohio does not sanction either homosexual marriage or civil unions.
 
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Cardinal is correct, same sex marriage or unions has been happening for eons.

History of same-sex unions - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia

State sanctioned homosexual unions were not part of modern society until after the year 2000 and it's questionable that anything like our modern state-sanctioned marriage ever existed in any routine form among any society until now.
 
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I disagree. Ultimately, it seems to be headed to the point of being irrelevant and once irrelevant, why support it with sanction? I think the current course, if maintained will see marriage wither away to an obscure social tradition eventually, provided society lasts long enough taking it's current course.

So, if gay people get married, people will stop getting married entirely? I'm not sure I get what you're predicting.
 
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I agree. That's why Ohio does not sanction either homosexual marriage or civil unions.

Ahh. So when people say gay people should be happy with civil unions, they're full of ****.
 
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So, if gay people get married, people will stop getting married entirely? I'm not sure I get what you're predicting.

I think state sanctioned marriage will eventually be just an archaic historic tradition. I don't think homosexuals are actually going to be doing much marrying. Most I've ever known thought marriage was a really stupid idea and except for the purpose of "normalizing" homosexuality or leveraging tax breaks like the Hawaiian couple did in the Supreme Court decision there, homosexual marriage makes little sense to virtually all the homosexuals I've known. Even my brother holds marriage in contempt as a heterosexual institution but is rabidly pro-homosexual marriage because it legitimizes homosexuality in a way nothing has before.

As it stands marriage is already in trouble with high divorce rates and people feeling quite comfortable living together without marriage. Ultimately, I'm thinking this is just one more nail in the coffin of marriage, but possibly the last one that's needed to seal the it shut. It won't happen in my lifetime and, who knows? Maybe society will change it's mind at some point in time. It seems the popularity of homosexuality waxes and wanes over different periods.
 
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