2. Why would you look for me to disprove an argument that was a red herring? I never made a claim about what why people are "trying to do". I said the vast majority of white Americans are racist. They are.
3. Remember, I did not provide those references before you asked because I didn't think you would respond education. That you replied to my post so quickly and concluded from the references that "most white Americans make at least some decisions based on race" proves that you, indeed do not respond to education. Hopefully, you will read those links in depth in the future for your own sake. You can start with this one as it's an easy read : http://www33.homepage.villanova.edu/...va~because.pdf.
4. I also wanted to note your hypocrisy in criticizing me for not providing references for my statements while you have yet to provide a single reference in support of your claim that "most white Americans are trying to not be racist." For the record, I'm not interested in one since I already know it doesn't exist. I just wanted to point out that the claim your so invested in is a myth you've constructed in your head based in far less actual research than the facts about white Americans you take exception to.
I don't need your advice. I'm doing pretty well, but I'm glad that a good white progressive like you is taking his time to teach me how deal with racism that he's perpetuating, especially since his advice amounts to "be nice to white people." LOL, give me a break.Again, guy, you need to learn not to hate, learn not to make sweeping judgments of others based on their race (because you certainly did just that) - because when you do, in the eyes of racists you're only justifying the hatred they have of you. You have to be better and rise above. When you return spite for spite, all they'll give you in return is spite - it's the same reason why someone who wants to take revenge on another man should dig two graves. But if you return spite with dignity and courtesy and kindness, many of them will still hate you for what you are...but some will see the spiteful image of their fellows and compare it to what they see in you, and they will change their ways. If you want to diminish racism by others, that is how to do so.