There is a lot more pressure on men to make more money than it is on women to make a lot of money. Societal pressure that is. Whether you think this is a good thing or not, it's not important but there is this pressure on men from women and other men. And such, men are more motivated to make money.
What is is the stereotype that women look for in men? Money and a sense of humor.
What's the stereotype that men look for in women? Youth and beauty.
Stereotypes exist for a reason and hence, the pressure.
There is no drama here or no story here. It's just you trying to make a mountain out of an ant hill.