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    Re: New Jersey Judge Blocks Dad From Delivery Room

    Quote Originally Posted by Gipper View Post
    I'd rather go through 18 hours of pain than 18 years of wallet-rape.
    Oh, so you think mom makes NO sacrifices during those years? Just dad and his wallet? Good LORD! It's so obvious you have no experience with children at all.

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    Re: New Jersey Judge Blocks Dad From Delivery Room

    Quote Originally Posted by ChrisL View Post
    Oh, so you think mom makes NO sacrifices during those years? Just dad and his wallet? Good LORD! It's so obvious you have no experience with children at all.
    Yeah, some sacrifice. She may miss 5 minutes of Young and the Restless to change a diaper.

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    Re: New Jersey Judge Blocks Dad From Delivery Room

    Quote Originally Posted by Gipper View Post
    Yeah, some sacrifice. She may miss 5 minutes of Young and the Restless to change a diaper.
    And again, you show that you have no idea what you're talking about. Maybe you should refrain from making ignorant comments?

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    Re: New Jersey Judge Blocks Dad From Delivery Room

    Quote Originally Posted by ChrisL View Post
    And again, you show that you have no idea what you're talking about. Maybe you should refrain from making ignorant comments?
    I was being slightly facetious, but the meat of the argument is that I don't buy into the whole "housewives/mothers do the equivalent of 2 full-time jobs" spiel I've been hearing extensively.

    Stay-at-home mothers are basically on welfare - just a different source of financing.

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    Re: New Jersey Judge Blocks Dad From Delivery Room

    Quote Originally Posted by Gipper View Post
    I was being slightly facetious, but the meat of the argument is that I don't buy into the whole "housewives/mothers do the equivalent of 2 full-time jobs" spiel I've been hearing extensively.

    Stay-at-home mothers are basically on welfare - just a different source of financing.
    Most moms work too. You are right, housewives nowadays would probably not be doing the equivalent of work that they used to do because of modern conveniences, such as dishwashers and things, but taking care of children is not easy either. It can be very stressful, especially when they get older.

    Honestly, I found taking care of my son as an infant to be really easy, but I was lucky, and he was a REALLY unusual baby in that he hardly ever cried and was always smiling and had an excellent demeanor. As children get older, it becomes MUCH more difficult, and they do not come with a handbook.

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    Re: New Jersey Judge Blocks Dad From Delivery Room

    Quote Originally Posted by ChrisL View Post
    Most moms work too. You are right, housewives nowadays would probably not be doing the equivalent of work that they used to do because of modern conveniences, such as dishwashers and things, but taking care of children is not easy either. It can be very stressful, especially when they get older.

    Honestly, I found taking care of my son as an infant to be really easy, but I was lucky, and he was a REALLY unusual baby in that he hardly ever cried and was always smiling and had an excellent demeanor. As children get older, it becomes MUCH more difficult, and they do not come with a handbook.
    The problem exists when most mothers "milk" it (no pun intended). They know that they have law, society, and public opinion right in the palm of their collective hands. They'd be fools not to indulge and keep the gravy train chugging the course as usual.

    And they hate pennies like me, being thrown on the track in order to attempt a derail.

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    Re: New Jersey Judge Blocks Dad From Delivery Room

    Quote Originally Posted by Gipper View Post
    The problem exists when most mothers "milk" it (no pun intended). They know that they have law, society, and public opinion right in the palm of their collective hands. They'd be fools not to indulge and keep the gravy train chugging the course as usual.

    And they hate pennies like me, being thrown on the track in order to attempt a derail.
    What do you mean by "milk" it? Women who have multiple children in order to collect social services? I would agree. Or a woman who spends the money she receives on herself instead of on her children's needs and lets the children go without? I would agree in that case too.

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    Re: New Jersey Judge Blocks Dad From Delivery Room

    Quote Originally Posted by ChrisL View Post
    What do you mean by "milk" it? Women who have multiple children in order to collect social services? I would agree. Or a woman who spends the money she receives on herself instead of on her children's needs and lets the children go without? I would agree in that case too.
    Well yeah, those. However, I'm also talking about mothers who attempt to be "martyrs to the cause" and climb that soapbox on every possible occasion. I won't say that motherhood is easy, but when you're home all day and the husband has to come home and cook dinner, do dishes, take out trash, etc. you've pretty much dropped the ball.

    And if you have 3, 5, 7 kids and can't handle them...well, that's your fault. It's not the guy's fault, since it's your body.

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    Re: New Jersey Judge Blocks Dad From Delivery Room

    Quote Originally Posted by Gipper View Post
    Well yeah, those. However, I'm also talking about mothers who attempt to be "martyrs to the cause" and climb that soapbox on every possible occasion. I won't say that motherhood is easy, but when you're home all day and the husband has to come home and cook dinner, do dishes, take out trash, etc. you've pretty much dropped the ball.

    And if you have 3, 5, 7 kids and can't handle them...well, that's your fault. It's not the guy's fault, since it's your body.
    I don't know any woman who sit around all day and don't do anything. Even the stay-at-home moms take care of their homes and their children, the ones I know. I've seen and heard of welfare moms, but I don't know of any personally. MOST moms love their kids. Sorry to disappoint you, and it has NOTHING to do with you guys, other than contributing to the expenses of raising your children and being a man about it. YOU had sex too. YOU are well aware of the results, and you are just as responsible for your decision-making.

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    Re: New Jersey Judge Blocks Dad From Delivery Room

    Quote Originally Posted by ChrisL View Post
    I don't know any woman who sit around all day and don't do anything. Even the stay-at-home moms take care of their homes and their children, the ones I know. I've seen and heard of welfare moms, but I don't know of any personally. MOST moms love their kids. Sorry to disappoint you, and it has NOTHING to do with you guys, other than contributing to the expenses of raising your children and being a man about it. YOU had sex too. YOU are well aware of the results, and you are just as responsible for your decision-making.
    Not me. I pull out.

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