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    Re: New Jersey Judge Blocks Dad From Delivery Room

    Quote Originally Posted by Hatuey View Post
    Which means what? She's already denying him access to the child. If she's going to go that route, then he should be free to deny her any support as well. You can't have it both ways.
    If the father is threatening not to pay child support before his child is even born, then I question how much he wanted the baby in the first place and so would a judge.

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    Re: New Jersey Judge Blocks Dad From Delivery Room

    Quote Originally Posted by DiAnna View Post
    IIRC, the father had originally sent legal documents to the hospital demanding that he be informed when his ex-girlfriend was admitted and in labor. The hospital refused, because they had neither the time nor the inclination to get involved in such notification procedures; when he took it to the judge, the judge agreed with the hospital.

    Clearly he did know when she was admitted, because he sued her while she was in labor, demanding he be present in the delivery room. The judge said it was the patient's right to choose who could be in the delivery room, and who couldn't.

    He saw the baby immediately after birth. The woman insists that she had always told him she would not deny him the right to see his child after it was born, and she didn't.
    I get all that Di. My personal thoughts are that whilst i can understand the Fathers distress at not being able to attend the birth of his child, the best interest of the child has to come first. In this instance the mental state of the Mother (which can contribute to the well being of the child during the birthing process) has to be a priority. There shouldn't be anyone in attendance that she is not ok with. After the birth and if the baby is ok then it's a different story.

    My comment related to the judges ruling that also stated Fathers do not have a right to know when their baby was born. That's setting a precendence for all future Fathers, not just this incident. I don't support that.

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    Re: New Jersey Judge Blocks Dad From Delivery Room

    Quote Originally Posted by Gipper View Post
    And you obviously didn't read the post that was in response to.
    I not only read it, I wrote it. You were responding to me.

    Oh wait - just a woman talking down to a man. Perfectly acceptable. Maybe I should've said "thank you ma'am, can I have another".
    Poor Gipper. You're just such a victim.

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    Re: New Jersey Judge Blocks Dad From Delivery Room

    Quote Originally Posted by DiAnna View Post
    Holy crap. Now the story is that he never asked to be in the delivery room. OOOPsies......

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    Re: New Jersey Judge Blocks Dad From Delivery Room

    Quote Originally Posted by DiAnna View Post
    I not only read it, I wrote it. You were responding to me.



    Poor Gipper. You're just such a victim.
    Actually, no, I wasn't.

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    Re: New Jersey Judge Blocks Dad From Delivery Room

    Quote Originally Posted by year2late View Post
    Holy crap. Now the story is that he never asked to be in the delivery room. OOOPsies......
    I do believe the court documents and ultimate court decision disagrees.

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    Re: New Jersey Judge Blocks Dad From Delivery Room

    Quote Originally Posted by roguenuke View Post
    So men are not donating their sperm to a woman? Because I'm pretty sure most of these guys aren't meaning to create a new person by having sex with those women.
    Seriously? When a new person is created the man gains parental rights. There is no "donation" taking place.

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    Re: New Jersey Judge Blocks Dad From Delivery Room

    Quote Originally Posted by opendebate View Post
    Women have sacrificed and been "kept in the dark" for generations. Women start to exert just a fraction of the control over issues such as this that men have dominated for centuries you have a ****ing hissy fit. Jesus Gip check your ****ing privilege.
    I will be sure to keep that in mind when I live for centuries. Until then perhaps it might of some use to realize that many of us aren't hundreds of years old and we don't remember a time when this **** didn't happen.

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    Re: New Jersey Judge Blocks Dad From Delivery Room

    Quote Originally Posted by Gipper View Post
    I hope you do. Some women need to be reminded that men exist to be more than footstools, emotional punching bags, and ATMs.
    Tell me, does this give you PTSD?

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    Re: New Jersey Judge Blocks Dad From Delivery Room

    Quote Originally Posted by Henrin View Post
    I will be sure to keep that in mind when I live for centuries. Until then perhaps it might of some use to realize that many of us aren't hundreds of years old and we don't remember a time when this **** didn't happen.
    Way to keep your eye on the ball dude.
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