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    Re: New Jersey Judge Blocks Dad From Delivery Room

    Quote Originally Posted by DiAnna View Post
    The guy was not allowed in the delivery room. It's the right of the woman to choose who she wants to support her during labor and delivery, and who she doesn't want there. He was so obsessed with forcing himself into that room, that he actually sued her while she was in labor, a truly dick move proving that her well-being, and by rote the well-being of the baby she was giving birth to, was of lesser concern to him than forcing his will upon her.

    These people do NOT like each other. Giving birth is traumatic enough without having someone you despise in the same room while you are expelling the equivalent of a 10-lb watermelon, screaming unladylike things such as "get it OOOOOUUUUUT!"... which would probably be brought up in their next court date (and there WILL be a "next court date") to prove that she didn't want the baby in the first place, therefore he should be given custody.

    The woman has repeatedly stated that he will never be denied access to the child, and in fact he saw the child immediately after it was born. All the rest of this "she's such a selfish bitch" crap is nothing but pure hatefulness by people who have never actually endured childbirth, let alone endured it with a person who despises her in the room. Only supportive people should be allowed, and are allowed, in the delivery room, and only with the mother's permission.



    Ah, I see. So because I have dared to speak out... apparently above my station in life, being a mere woman and all... that should be a rallying cry to strip women of all right to speak without permission and to hold independent opinions. I'll keep that in mind.
    If the woman is so emotionally unstable that she has to take this hardline stance, she doesn't have the mental acuity, nor the emotional stability to make such a decision. She's being a baby herself, allowing her weak, womanly emotions the power to punish the man.

    It's a good lesson for men - a woman's vitriol and petty spite can be a tool against you at any time...and there's not a damn thing you can do about it.

    Attitudes like that make men splitting on knocked-up women almost justified.

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    Re: New Jersey Judge Blocks Dad From Delivery Room

    Quote Originally Posted by Gipper View Post
    What a load. How about the misandry of the thread? The woman is denying the father of the child a supposedly important moment in a selfish move.

    Women are immune to criticism in today's world. The guy can get dumped on for the nerve of wanting to be there for the birth of his child, but the mother can do and act any way she wants.

    Women will never be equal. They can't handle being judged on their own merits. Remarks like yours support a return to the days where women are seen and not heard.
    You never cease to amaze me.
    There are physical realities at play here.
    The mother is having demands placed on her that are overwhelming, to add to that by catering to the purely emotional and selfish needs of the father is clearly not in the best interests of the child. As a parent you place your child first and yourself second. While the internal conflict the father feels in this moment may be as deserving of acknowledgement as the mothers the physical reality is that the mothers will impact the child at the moment of birth and the fathers will not.


    Second physical reality...the baby comes out of her hooch. She has every right to decide who does and does not get to see that.
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    Re: New Jersey Judge Blocks Dad From Delivery Room

    Quote Originally Posted by Gipper View Post
    If the woman is so emotionally unstable that she has to take this hardline stance, she doesn't have the mental acuity, nor the emotional stability to make such a decision. She's being a baby herself, allowing her weak, womanly emotions the power to punish the man.

    It's a good lesson for men - a woman's vitriol and petty spite can be a tool against you at any time...and there's not a damn thing you can do about it.

    Attitudes like that make men splitting on knocked-up women almost justified.
    Just out of curiosity, how are you certain that it isn't the father who is in fact a complete jagoff?

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    Re: New Jersey Judge Blocks Dad From Delivery Room

    Quote Originally Posted by Gipper View Post
    If the woman is so emotionally unstable that she has to take this hardline stance, she doesn't have the mental acuity, nor the emotional stability to make such a decision. She's being a baby herself, allowing her weak, womanly emotions the power to punish the man.

    It's a good lesson for men - a woman's vitriol and petty spite can be a tool against you at any time...and there's not a damn thing you can do about it.

    Attitudes like that make men splitting on knocked-up women almost justified.
    You've made your feelings about women quite clear; no need to reiterate them. I will remember. Trust me on that.

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    Re: New Jersey Judge Blocks Dad From Delivery Room

    Quote Originally Posted by Cardinal View Post
    Just out of curiosity, how are you certain that it isn't the father who is in fact a complete jagoff?
    Because he has a penis, duh!

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    Re: New Jersey Judge Blocks Dad From Delivery Room

    Quote Originally Posted by Gipper View Post
    If the woman is so emotionally unstable that she has to take this hardline stance, she doesn't have the mental acuity, nor the emotional stability to make such a decision. She's being a baby herself, allowing her weak, womanly emotions the power to punish the man.

    It's a good lesson for men - a woman's vitriol and petty spite can be a tool against you at any time...and there's not a damn thing you can do about it.

    Attitudes like that make men splitting on knocked-up women almost justified.
    Somehow reading your post "TOOL" came immediately to mind.

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    Re: New Jersey Judge Blocks Dad From Delivery Room

    Quote Originally Posted by Cardinal View Post
    Just out of curiosity, how are you certain that it isn't the father who is in fact a complete jagoff?
    Anything is possible, but the fact that he was willing to go to court for the right to be there for the birth of his child is a positive sign...dontcha think?

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    Re: New Jersey Judge Blocks Dad From Delivery Room

    Reading further into this...

    in the decision, believed to be the first of its kind, the father was also told he didn’t have a right to know when the baby was born.
    Ridiculous. That's taking things a little too far don't you think? What is so terrible about a father knowing when his child is born?

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    Re: New Jersey Judge Blocks Dad From Delivery Room

    Quote Originally Posted by Gipper View Post
    If the woman is so emotionally unstable that she has to take this hardline stance, she doesn't have the mental acuity, nor the emotional stability to make such a decision. She's being a baby herself, allowing her weak, womanly emotions the power to punish the man.

    It's a good lesson for men - a woman's vitriol and petty spite can be a tool against you at any time...and there's not a damn thing you can do about it.

    Attitudes like that make men splitting on knocked-up women almost justified.
    Jesus dude, what the hell happened to you?
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    Re: New Jersey Judge Blocks Dad From Delivery Room

    Quote Originally Posted by DiAnna View Post
    You've made your feelings about women quite clear; no need to reiterate them. I will remember. Trust me on that.
    I hope you do. Some women need to be reminded that men exist to be more than footstools, emotional punching bags, and ATMs.

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