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    Re: New Jersey Judge Blocks Dad From Delivery Room

    Quote Originally Posted by ChrisL View Post
    How so? You are just closing your eyes to what is happening and whining for no good reason.
    I'm not whining. It's not happening to me. I won't let it.

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    Re: New Jersey Judge Blocks Dad From Delivery Room

    Quote Originally Posted by iguanaman View Post
    When taxes on the top brackets were much higher, wages went up with productivity and profits. There is something about giving money to the Govt. that makes employers decide to give it to their employees instead. Wages are tax deductible.
    And the time period you are using here is? I do however find your idea that employers give their money to employees, so that they don't have to pay the government laughably absurd. Where did you get that silliness from?

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    Re: New Jersey Judge Blocks Dad From Delivery Room

    Quote Originally Posted by ChrisL View Post
    There is nothing "arrogant" about not wanting the man in the delivery room with you. It's a very personal and traumatic time. Obviously, some of you men just don't understand, and that's NOT surprising.

    Not being in the delivery room is NOT the woman taking advantage of the man. If the man is allowed into the delivery room regardless of the woman's wishes, he is the arrogant and thoughtless one who is taking advantage of the situation.
    I have been there and watched the whole thing several times. The whole blood and guts. Saw one that was breached, that was a real ordeal. Having said that, there can be a positive feeling that comes from being there. Women should also be understanding and try to honor a man's desire to be their when his child is born. Again, if she doesn't want that and they can't work it out between themselves a responsible 3rd party should arbitrate.

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    Re: New Jersey Judge Blocks Dad From Delivery Room

    Quote Originally Posted by tacomancer View Post
    splitting the kids up? i tend to have a visceral reaction to that idea
    nah

    they actually have 3 kids but the one was graduating so they just let his situation be the boy only had one more year of school and the the girl 3.

    I dont understand your concern though but the most important thing this is also what the kids wanted and now the daughter is actually going to be with him too for her last two years of highschool
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    Re: New Jersey Judge Blocks Dad From Delivery Room

    Quote Originally Posted by MildSteel View Post
    I have been there and watched the whole thing several times. The whole blood and guts. Saw one that was breached, that was a real ordeal. Having said that, there can be a positive feeling that comes from being there. Women should also be understanding and try to honor a man's desire to be their when his child is born. Again, if she doesn't want that and they can't work it out between themselves a responsible 3rd party should arbitrate.
    Don't you think if they had a good relationship, she would want him to be there? if there is some reason she doesn't want him there, I'm sure it's not just to be a "bitch" to him. Would you want someone you didn't like to be there with you? The father can be there right after the birth and hold the baby, or whatever. Just because he isn't there for the actually delivery doesn't mean anything.

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    Re: New Jersey Judge Blocks Dad From Delivery Room

    Quote Originally Posted by MildSteel View Post
    I have been there and watched the whole thing several times. The whole blood and guts. Saw one that was breached, that was a real ordeal. Having said that, there can be a positive feeling that comes from being there. Women should also be understanding and try to honor a man's desire to be their when his child is born. Again, if she doesn't want that and they can't work it out between themselves a responsible 3rd party should arbitrate.
    Let me put it a different way. If your SO asked you to NOT be in the room during the delivery because it would make her feel uncomfortable and/or stressed for some reason, would you force your way into that situation against her will anyways, just to make a point?

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    Re: New Jersey Judge Blocks Dad From Delivery Room

    Quote Originally Posted by Henrin View Post
    Section 1. Neither slavery nor involuntary servitude, except as a punishment for crime whereof the party shall have been duly convicted, shall exist within the United States, or any place subject to their jurisdiction.

    Notice the exception. Notice how it doesn't apply to the situation at hand.

    Do you really think you can win this?
    LOL Not paying child support IS a crime. Your move.

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    Re: New Jersey Judge Blocks Dad From Delivery Room

    Quote Originally Posted by AGENT J View Post
    nah

    they actually have 3 kids but the one was graduating so they just let his situation be the boy only had one more year of school and the the girl 3.

    I dont understand your concern though but the most important thing this is also what the kids wanted and now the daughter is actually going to be with him too for her last two years of highschool
    Its because my own kids are still very young. If they are teens though, that is a completely different, and in my opinion, acceptable thing

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    Re: New Jersey Judge Blocks Dad From Delivery Room

    Quote Originally Posted by iguanaman View Post
    LOL Not paying child support IS a crime. Your move.
    That is if you don't comply with the demand for your labor and property. Your move.

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    Re: New Jersey Judge Blocks Dad From Delivery Room

    Quote Originally Posted by Gipper View Post
    I'm not whining. It's not happening to me. I won't let it.

    I refuse to subject myself to losing odds.
    Well good for you.

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