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    Re: New Jersey Judge Blocks Dad From Delivery Room

    Quote Originally Posted by ChrisL View Post
    Nope, a father is one who knows his child and cares about his child and is a father. Just like a mother who doesn't care for her children would be considered an incubator and not really a "mom." Mom and dad are the ones who care for you, nurture you and love you.
    Look, I have had this talk many times with many people and what you describe is not accurate. Good day.

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    Re: New Jersey Judge Blocks Dad From Delivery Room

    Quote Originally Posted by ChrisL View Post
    Believe what you will, but what I said is basically supported by any basic understanding of human nature and reflected very easily in economic matters. The system of child support will never turn out better results. Period.

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    Re: New Jersey Judge Blocks Dad From Delivery Room

    Quote Originally Posted by ChrisL View Post
    It's bull. If the mother admits to negligent behavior, and the father is a good dad, they are not going to award custody to the negligent parent.
    And more mothers than ever in the past are losing custody, particularly full custody and even having to pay child support. Some women are even being made to pay alimony. Pretty sure that shows at least a change in the right direction here when it comes to child custody and the sex/gender of parents. However, unfortunately, this issue has a lot of components and its not easy to get a proper decision that is going to be fair for everyone.

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    Re: New Jersey Judge Blocks Dad From Delivery Room

    Quote Originally Posted by Henrin View Post
    Look, I have had this talk many times with many people and what you describe is not accurate. Good day.

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    Re: New Jersey Judge Blocks Dad From Delivery Room

    Quote Originally Posted by Henrin View Post
    Believe what you will, but what I said is basically supported by any basic understanding of human nature and reflected very easily in economic matters. The system of child support will never turn out better results. Period.
    Umm, no.

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    Re: New Jersey Judge Blocks Dad From Delivery Room

    Quote Originally Posted by ChrisL View Post
    Umm, no.
    Sorry, but yes, what I said is exactly right. This is even understood when they tax things on the market.

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    Re: New Jersey Judge Blocks Dad From Delivery Room

    Quote Originally Posted by Henrin View Post
    I think it's interesting that people haven't figured that government imposed child support is a disincentive and causes more men to abandon their children, not an incentive that gets more men to support their children. Think of it like a tax. Every single tax that is compulsory causes a disincentive to take part in whatever it is towards. It is not different for child support. It's one of the reasons the problem is getting worse, not better.
    So what is your solution?

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    Re: New Jersey Judge Blocks Dad From Delivery Room

    Quote Originally Posted by MaggieD View Post
    So what is your solution?
    He thinks it should be a "choice" for men as to whether they support their children or not.

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    Re: New Jersey Judge Blocks Dad From Delivery Room

    Quote Originally Posted by Henrin View Post
    Sorry, but yes, what I said is exactly right. This is even understood when they tax things on the market.
    No, we do the things we do regarding child support because we have to. If there was no need, we wouldn't do this. They go after these guys because the women collect social services to support themselves and their children. A lot of times in the past, they would NOT give the father's information. Now, if a woman (or a man) is collecting social services for a child, the agency will actively go after the absentee parent for money, as it should be. If it was the way you wanted it to be, ALL of us would be paying for these children.

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    Re: New Jersey Judge Blocks Dad From Delivery Room

    Quote Originally Posted by roguenuke View Post
    And more mothers than ever in the past are losing custody, particularly full custody and even having to pay child support. Some women are even being made to pay alimony. Pretty sure that shows at least a change in the right direction here when it comes to child custody and the sex/gender of parents. However, unfortunately, this issue has a lot of components and its not easy to get a proper decision that is going to be fair for everyone.

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