YOU brought up procreation, which is NOT a requirement for marriage, and you used it as a comparison between heterosexual marriage and gay marriage. YOU are wrong.
No two marriage, heterosexual or not are NEVER equal in every way. So suck it up, eventually gay marriage will be legal in all states and YOU will have to deal with it. Just like those against interracial marriage had to deal with it. You are in good company with racists and bigots. Enjoy your company.