In response to your second question. My boys have a great relationship with their "real parents", because we are their REAL PARENTS. If you mean "bio mom and dad"...they have no relationship. Father lives in Vegas and has been out of the picture for years. Mother had her parental rights terminated about 3 years ago, which allowed us to adopt the boys. Now...if the bio mom or dad comes to us in the future and wants to have a relationship with the kids I would say, "HELL NO", if my boys on the otherhand want to seek out the biological parents and have a relationship with them, I would absolutely do everything in my power to assist them in doing so. But it has to come from them.
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