Don't give a damn about the Windsor Decision because it was a federal issue and involved federal benefits
You should. It's the decision that Scalia said in his dissent:
“The majority arms well every challenger to a state law restricting marriage to its traditional definition.”
And whaddyaknow...it's exactly what's happening in a spate of Federal court decisions that have used Windsor as it's basis for declaring same-sex marriage bans to be Unconstitutional. Including the one yesterday, from Texas.