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It will be interesting when conflicting laws collide. The EEOC definition of sexual harassment is:
"It is unlawful to harass a person (an applicant or employee) because of that person’s sex. Harassment can include “sexual harassment” or unwelcome sexual advances, requests for sexual favors, and other verbal or physical harassment of a sexual nature.
Harassment does not have to be of a sexual nature, however, and can include offensive remarks about a person’s sex. For example, it is illegal to harass a woman by making offensive comments about women in general.
Both victim and the harasser can be either a woman or a man, and the victim and harasser can be the same sex.
Although the law doesn’t prohibit simple teasing, offhand comments, or isolated incidents that are not very serious, harassment is illegal when it is so frequent or severe that it creates a hostile or offensive work environment or when it results in an adverse employment decision (such as the victim being fired or demoted)."
All that is very loose and subjective. Right now, the women of Wellesly College are upset with a statue of a man in underwear and are threaten by his existence. The statue will probably be removed. Clearly a NFL player in the locker room has a right to not feel harassed by an openly gay teammate. And it is not your place to dictate that he should not feel harassed. This player should not be bullied into accepting an openly gay player. In fact, to criticize the offended player would be a violation of civil rights laws.
I know that I am being ridiculous here. No court would allow it. The sexual harassment laws will be ignored in this case. But why is it anyone's concern what a person's sex life is and why is that allowable in a workplace to state one's sexual proclivities.
You're out of your mind if you think that stating one's orientation is sexual harrassment. This is dealt with civilly in gyms, dorms, the military, and locker rooms across this country but somehow nfl players are too fragile for that? There are already gay players in the nfl, possibly on every team. They're already there!
The only thing being advocated is they be allowed to not hide it the same way hetero athletes don't, and it's hardly bullying to insist that bullying of the gay player doesn't happen! The only way you don't make the judgment call that a person's right to be a full participant on an athletic team is if you're of the mind to say "screw the gays" every time, so that's a dam prejudiced stance to take.