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It is easy to judge on the outside, but it has been my experience that it is not always easy for some people to leave relationships. Both my sisters spent years in abusive relationships. We told them again and again that they needed to get out. They where convinced they loved the person however, and that things could be repaired.
That still does not make it right to blame the investigators or those that advised leaving/reporting the abuse in a timely manner. Rather than concentrate on blaming the investigators, she should instead advise others not to endure abuse as she did and seek help immediately. To help end something, like abusive relationships or date rape, one must act quickly and decisively, not wait years to decide that help is needed.