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"I used to roll the dice; see the fear in my enemies' eyes... listen as the crowd would sing, 'now the old king is dead, Long Live the King.'.."
Well, since no one can come up with a form of "physical coercion" that doesn't involve holding a person down, threatening a person, drugging a person, or violence, then the only kind of physical coercion I can think of would be sexual touching.
Now, there is a segment of feminists out there who DO believe that once they say "no" that word is final and if a man so much as lays a HAND on her after that, she might consider that rape or attempted rape. THAT is a very extremist and rigid point of view though IMO, and I personally don't consider trying to coax your girlfriend into having sex as rape at all.
I'm already gearing up for Finger Vote 2014.
Just for reference, means my post was a giant steaming pile of sarcasm.
I have yet to hear of a court case in the last 50 years where rape was defended in such a fashion as claiming the victim inticed the criminal or did not resist enough. On the other hand many people raise very reasonable considerations and criticisms as you are doing here and of course you are called an apologist.