Definition of HOMOPHOBIA
: irrational fear of, aversion to, or discrimination against homosexuality or homosexuals
before you can call him a homophobe you must first prove that his fear or aversion is irrational or that he discriminates agains gays.
not saying he is, not saying he isn't. just saying that just because you oppose homosexuality, it doesn't mean you are a homophobe.
Americans are so enamored of equality that they would rather be equal in slavery than unequal in freedom.
Alexis de Tocqueville