some hospital is going to deny visitation to a same sex couple or deny them spousal privileges. Or some hospital is going to not notify next of kin or spouse.
maybe even something negative like some spouse will cheat in another state, is it cheating?
of a spouse will sadly die in another state and that state will try to keep the car or something dumb
something is gonna happen to push it IMO
some of theses states and people are too dumb
you could be right but im putting my money on 5 years