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Love might be why you would get married but it's not the reason the state sanctions it. Love your sister if you want, (in ways that are taboo or otherwise) but you can't marry her and you're not going to make a good case that you should because the interests of the state aren't about whether you love your spouse or not, but whether you are an appropriate biological pairing.
That's right, but you can't divorce that primary purpose from the reasoning of marriage without actually redefining it's purpose by disposing of the cornerstone.
Since you're struggling to understand what "state sanctioned marriage" means, let's start out with a basic definitions.
Sanction: noun. approval - approbation - endorsement - authorization
State Sanctioned marriage is for the purpose of approving a pairing and confirming that it makes biological sense. That's why important restrictions to marriage have historically included things like incest, fatal venereal diseases, blood types that are incompatible for producing children and, of course, same sex partners. Marriage is official approval and endorsement of a pairing that is not biologically illogical.
They were required once medical science realized that certain blood types were incompatible for bearing offspring - which just strengthens the argument that the reason for marriage was about approving, licensing, endorsing, SANCTIONING a biologically sensible coupling.
You keep trying to argue the absurd in defense of your position. Being fertile COULD actually be a condition of marriage, but the state clearly assumes that male and female meets the rationale for "biologically sensible". Going further to demand fertility tests would be too intrusive and expensive for everyone involved since the premise of marriage remains intact merely by union of male/female.
If the purpose of marriage was to "affirm love", then this argument wouldn't have happened in the first place. That's not the purpose of the state sanctioned entity of marriage and in some part of your brain, you must actually know this. I understand that you don't like it since it doesn't fit your progressive views, but some part of you must know that you are not being completely honest even with yourself when you try to claim that the purpose of marriage really has nothing to do with procreation, bearing children and establishing the family unit. It's so intrinsic to marriage that you absolutely cannot deny honestly that it's true.
Historically, marriage has been almost entirely about procreation and raising families. Love played almost no role at all in marriage through most of history. This is what has changed. We ted to view marriage as "a love commitment" today. That's not what it was created for. Sometimes the truth isn't pretty, glamorous or romantic.
Historically... oh wait... appeal to tradition logical fallacy. That was easy.
Sorry, Charlie. When we're trying to determine the purpose for marriage laws, history is not fallacious. It is critical to understanding. So, of course, you would dismiss it because that wouldn't suit your progressive agenda.
Sorry, Charlie. When we're trying to determine the purpose for marriage laws, history is not fallacious. It is critical to understanding. So, of course, you would dismiss it because that wouldn't suit your progressive agenda.
Well, since the purpose for marriage laws has not been about procreation, your point is irrelevant both factually and logically.
Now, if you want to keep throwing out stupid partisan comments, I can certainly play that game, but it's making your argument look weaker than it is. Certainly if that's your goal, keep doing it.
Well, since the purpose for marriage laws has not been about procreation, your point is irrelevant both factually and logically.
What marriage laws were originally created for now seems to be entirely in the realm of opinion. Yours and mine are different v many share yours. Many share mine. You want to claim procreation wasn't the most important reason. I think you are dead wrong and that it was the primary goal. But I also think we are at impasse and probably will be at least until its decided for all, and maybe well beyond that.
Actually the history of marriage is very important and the word 'matrimony' itself is from the Latin word for 'mother' and that, of course, is all about procreation. We can debate about Gays marrying but we should understand that history and culture always play an important role in any society.
What marriage laws were originally created for is a matter of logic and examination. Procreation has never been on an application or part of a legal construct for marriage. I do not consider this an impasse. I see it more of you digging into a position that has no standing logically or definitively for whatever reason it is that you have.
The history of marriage is not relevant due to the logical fallacy. You can not prove a position by claiming "it's always been that way". From a legal standpoint, procreation is not a requirement in any way shape or form. And, if you going to use a cultural position, then the fact that today's culture shows that SSM is supported by the majority, the impact of this on society is pretty clear.
And I consider you to be naysaying and pretending that's a sound refutation.
The link between procreation and marriage laws is so ubiquitous that you trip over it every time you examine history and you reject it offhand.
As Grant said, even the word matrimony relates to procreation. It was about establishing a family unit and supporting framework for having children.
The history of marriage is not relevant due to the logical fallacy. You can not prove a position by claiming "it's always been that way". From a legal standpoint, procreation is not a requirement in any way shape or form. And, if you going to use a cultural position, then the fact that today's culture shows that SSM is supported by the majority, the impact of this on society is pretty clear.
When you argue that homosexuals should be give. Marriage rights, it is right to question whether or not that would advance the interests of the state that motivated the state to sanction marriage in the first place. And in order to do that, you look at history. I don't blame you for trying to cover it up as quickly as possible and dismiss it as a logical fallacy since you are vested in the denial of it's purpose. But you can't dismiss it as a logical fallacy "appeal to history" because the arguments we are engaging in are dependent on history and purpose.
You said "Procreation has never been on an application or part of a legal construct for marriage" when that is obviously false.
If you disregard the "it's always been that way" argument, how can you make the argument that "Procreation has never been on an application or part of a legal construct for marriage"? We either ignore history or we accept it.
[Matrimony was extremely important because it obliged the husband to be responsible for the children (and the 'house') and for the wife to be faithful in that relationship so that the husband would not be working for another mans children.
If society is ready for Gay marriages then so be it. The same holds true for polygamous marriages, also already de facto recognized in the UK and Canada. But we cannot use history to support Gay marriage. It has always been a heterosexual concept.
You said "Procreation has never been on an application or part of a legal construct for marriage" when that is obviously false. If you disregard the "it's always been that way" argument, how can you make the argument that "Procreation has never been on an application or part of a legal construct for marriage"? We either ignore history or we accept it.
Matrimony was extremely important because it obliged the husband to be responsible for the children (and the 'house') and for the wife to be faithful in that relationship so that the husband would not be working for another mans children.
If society is ready for Gay marriages then so be it. The same holds true for polygamous marriages, also already de facto recognized in the UK and Canada. But we cannot use history to support Gay marriage. It has always been a heterosexual concept.
Good luck with CC. You can lead a horse to water but you can't make him drink.
The main reasons why Proposition H8 would not pass today are two fold: California, just like the rest of the nation has evolved exponentially over the last 5 years and 2. A lot of Californians that voted for Prop H8 realized very soon thereafter that they were snowed by the deceitful Mormon propaganda campaign. I can't tell you how many people have come out and said that they regret their vote because they understand now that it was based on lies primarily perpetrated by the Mormon church.
Since the two of you are posting near identical failed arguments, I can just repost things I've already said to the same successful effect.
There is no question that you have an extraordinary capacity for redundancy. If that won arguments, you'd be a killer in debates.