Everyone has not been doing same sex marriage all along and neither is everyone still doing it. It is a break with both tradition and history despite dishonest claims to the contrary by advocates of homosexual marriage. You can claim there were exceptions to the rule, but that's all they were - deviations and exceptions. Marriage in the United States (and all the free world, for that matter) were always between one man and one woman for the entire history of the USA until the last dozen years and longer than that throughout the rest of the world.So, both historically and in current international and State jurisdictions same-sex marriage is not a special right because "everyone has been doing it and is still doing it" today.
You're bucking history and claiming that you're not isn't honest and I'm, not sure who you think you're kidding with that but it's not me.