Haha, a thread about Navy Pride.
And assuming that doing this will cause havoc on the family is simply not true, their are many trans parents who have great relationships with their kids, and former spouses. Hell some spouses even stay with them.
For example, Laura Jane Grace, lead singer of the band Against Me! came out as trans, and is transitioning, has a kid, and a wife, and the family grew because of it. Her, and her wife are still together, and raising their little girl together. So assuming that someone doing this is this horrible thing is just wrong.
Eat me, drink me, love me;
Laura make much of me