I did not promote the concept. You built that straw man all on your own.It doesn't matter if you used the word if it is the one that describes the concept that you are promoting. I did use that word because it fits here. By trying to excuse her bad choices, you promote the victim mentality. You are trying to excuse her bad choices by creating the mythical lack of alternatives (the sign it or have no job false dichotomy) that you put forth in response to my statement. Alternatives existed, she chose not to take them. She then chose to have sex after signing that contract. She didn't immediately challenge the contract, she waited until she got caught violating it to challenge. She's attempting to have her cock and eat it too.