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    Re: Dad must pay child support for 3 kids that aren't his: Court rules

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    They'd be in Nizhny Novgorod, Russian Federation. Avtozavodsky district.

    "Rush Limbaugh Conservatives" had ZERO to do with it.
    Yes, and the difference is that viewing it like Rush, you along with Rush believe in adoption over abortion, and in this case, your child would either be with you, or fertilizer.

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    Re: Dad must pay child support for 3 kids that aren't his: Court rules

    Addressing the OP,

    This isn't fair, and the whole family court system in Canada and the US is a freaking joke. Anyone who has experienced it in ANY capacity can well atest to this statement. I have for many years advocated for a jury system in family court matters. It's the only fair way to make sure justice is being served to all parties including and most importantly the children of marriage.

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    Re: Dad must pay child support for 3 kids that aren't his: Court rules

    Quote Originally Posted by rocket88 View Post
    And this man consented to being on the birth certificate, and was their father legally. He consented to the charade that he was their dad. Really, how dumb is this guy? 16 years and he never thought his wife had multiple affairs? There were no signs of it or anything? How unfeeling must he be to suddenly disown girls that were his daughters for 16, 14 and 12 years?
    Oh cmon, people are blind to all sorts of really obvious stuff that anyone outside the relationship can see. I agree, the guy is a first class nob for disowning these kids (IF that's what he's done). But we're not talking about that.

    The court essentially set this guy adrift making him pay for kids he has no other legal responsibility to and who are now not legally connected to him in any other way. If the mother were to die tomorrow, would the court, knowing he's not the biological or adopted father, give him full custody?

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    Re: Dad must pay child support for 3 kids that aren't his: Court rules

    Quote Originally Posted by clownboy View Post
    Oh cmon, people are blind to all sorts of really obvious stuff that anyone outside the relationship can see. I agree, the guy is a first class nob for disowning these kids (IF that's what he's done). But we're not talking about that.

    The court essentially set this guy adrift making him pay for kids he has no other legal responsibility to and who are now not legally connected to him in any other way. If the mother were to die tomorrow, would the court, knowing he's not the biological or adopted father, give him full custody?
    Why doesn't he have a legal responsibility?

    Because he's not the biological father? So - all that parenting and upbringing was . . . what - done by ghosts?

    I don't understand the firm dismissal of his role as a parent, here -- knowledge has changed, things have shifted- but that doesn't end that he was and is their father figure.

    He either never loved them - or just needs time to accept this turn of events.
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    Re: Dad must pay child support for 3 kids that aren't his: Court rules

    Quote Originally Posted by clownboy View Post
    The court essentially set this guy adrift making him pay for kids he has no other legal responsibility to and who are now not legally connected to him in any other way. If the mother were to die tomorrow, would the court, knowing he's not the biological or adopted father, give him full custody?
    Yes, they would, because he is their father. The father may get screwed in custody disputes with the mother, but father trumps every other relative and certainly trumps putting the children into the system.

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    Re: Dad must pay child support for 3 kids that aren't his: Court rules

    Quote Originally Posted by Henrin View Post
    I don't see the problem here.

    If the guy isn't the father of the kids, he just isn't the father of the kids. Acting in the role of a father doesn't change that.
    Do you think bio parents should pay all expenses of the adoptive parents they give their child to?

    If not, then yes, it does make a difference.

    Combining gametes does not make someone a parent. It just makes them someone who had with sex without birth control.

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    Re: Dad must pay child support for 3 kids that aren't his: Court rules

    Quote Originally Posted by Viktyr Gehrig View Post
    Yes, they would, because he is their father. The father may get screwed in custody disputes with the mother, but father trumps every other relative and certainly trumps putting the children into the system.

    That's not true. That would only be true if there were no claims from any blood parent, and that included grandparents. If the mothers parents claimed the children in the event of her death they NOT the none biological father would have these rights.


    Child support and custody are separate issues in the family court system.

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    Re: Dad must pay child support for 3 kids that aren't his: Court rules

    Quote Originally Posted by Aunt Spiker View Post
    Why doesn't he have a legal responsibility?

    Because he's not the biological father? So - all that parenting and upbringing was . . . what - done by ghosts?

    I don't understand the firm dismissal of his role as a parent, here -- knowledge has changed, things have shifted- but that doesn't end that he was and is their father figure.

    He either never loved them - or just needs time to accept this turn of events.
    Once again, take the weepy emotion out of it. Yes, he's a ****heel if he's now disowning the kids. But being a "father figure" does not put one on the hook for child support, no matter how long you serve in that role. Outside of this court's odd action he now has no legal responsibility or ties to them. He's simply in limbo where it comes to a legal relationship with them. He can't sue for custody because he's neither the biological nor the adopted parent. Heck, I'm not even sure he can get visitation.

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    Re: Dad must pay child support for 3 kids that aren't his: Court rules

    Quote Originally Posted by SmokeAndMirrors View Post
    Do you think bio parents should pay all expenses of the adoptive parents they give their child to?

    If not, then yes, it does make a difference.

    Combining gametes does not make someone a parent. It just makes them someone who had with sex without birth control.
    But why should someone who isn't a parent be forced to be financially responsible for someone who isn't their kid? If you married someone who had kids, does that automatically make you responsible for those kids for the rest of your life?
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    Re: Dad must pay child support for 3 kids that aren't his: Court rules

    Quote Originally Posted by Viktyr Gehrig View Post
    Yes, they would, because he is their father. The father may get screwed in custody disputes with the mother, but father trumps every other relative and certainly trumps putting the children into the system.
    And once again, he is NOT their father. Not legally, biologically or adoptive. I've seen it happen first hand, he's not entitled to custody unless the biologicals sign off or have their parental rights terminated.

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