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    Re: Dad must pay child support for 3 kids that aren't his: Court rules

    Quote Originally Posted by clownboy View Post
    Except in many cases it's not. If the mother can't afford to live on her own efforts, where do you think the child support money is going to go?
    Doesn't matter. If the child is living in that house, and the mother is using support money to pay for things like rent, food, utilities, etc. then it is deemed to benefit the child regardless of whether or not the mother also benefits. I mean you can't rightly say that the child lives in the house but the mother, what? Lives in the back yard?

    Generally speaking from my limited exposure, the child support part of the divorce comes AFTER child custody and visitation are discussed. Perhaps he lost all parental rights, not being their [legal] father and after hearing that objects to paying with no hopes of even having visitation with the kids again.
    That is the emotional side of the argument. I understand what you are saying, but in reality support of the child whether you are allowed to see said child or not, really doesn't matter in the eyes of the court.
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    Re: Dad must pay child support for 3 kids that aren't his: Court rules

    Quote Originally Posted by j-mac View Post
    All due respect here Henrin....Just what in the freakin' hell are you talkin' bout here? Emotions? Rational? Let me show you how the law defines it....

    You care for your estranged children by 1. paying support, and keeping it up to date, as well as providing additional financial support as needed, just as he would do if living in the home. 2. All this pap about Emotions, and Rational are just that. You want to be able to run a game on the kid thinking you are being a parent when you have already told them through your support decision, but still want the benefits of calling yourself a parent, probably to ease your own conscience for basically telling them to fend for themselves.
    Caring for a child, as in how you feel for the child, is different than wanting to provide for the child.

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    Re: Dad must pay child support for 3 kids that aren't his: Court rules

    Quote Originally Posted by Aunt Spiker View Post
    I wrote: "The rights of the children trump all others in such cases - it always has and always will."

    Your response is this:

    Then you say:

    Apparently you think YOU can - as long as it's the rights of the children that are dissolved . . . That's exactly what you're supporting . . . you want to dissolve the rights of these children. No. I'm wrong. I'll restate: you don't even want to dissolve the rights of the children - you want to pretend they don't have any.

    They do matter. They matter a lot. They have rights and they matter - more than anything else. Nothing more to say, really.
    What rights are we talking about? Sorry, but I need to understand where you coming from in order to either agree with you or disagree with you.

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    Re: Dad must pay child support for 3 kids that aren't his: Court rules

    Quote Originally Posted by Henrin View Post
    Caring for a child, as in how you feel for the child, is different than wanting to provide for the child.
    Well, I'll tell you what...Bring that line of reasoning into a court when standing in front of a Judge for failure to pay support, and after he stops laughing, you'll be lucky to stay out of jail....k?
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    Re: Dad must pay child support for 3 kids that aren't his: Court rules

    Quote Originally Posted by j-mac View Post
    Well, I'll tell you what...Bring that line of reasoning into a court when standing in front of a Judge for failure to pay support, and after he stops laughing, you'll be lucky to stay out of jail....k?
    Don't worry that wouldn't be my argument and the problem isn't in the court, but in the law.

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    Re: Dad must pay child support for 3 kids that aren't his: Court rules

    Quote Originally Posted by Henrin View Post
    Don't worry that wouldn't be my argument and the problem isn't in the court, but in the law.
    So you don't think that the non custodial parent should have to support their children?
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    Re: Dad must pay child support for 3 kids that aren't his: Court rules

    Quote Originally Posted by j-mac View Post
    So you don't think that the non custodial parent should have to support their children?
    By law? No.

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    Re: Dad must pay child support for 3 kids that aren't his: Court rules

    Quote Originally Posted by Henrin View Post
    What rights are we talking about? Sorry, but I need to understand where you coming from in order to either agree with you or disagree with you.

    Wow - just wow, Henrin. That's tragic. You don't honestly have a clue what their rights are? You need me to spell it out for you?

    "They don't have rights . . . . uuuuh - tell me what they are cause I have no ****ing clue." That's you - unbelievable.
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    Re: Dad must pay child support for 3 kids that aren't his: Court rules

    Quote Originally Posted by Henrin View Post
    By law? No.
    Why not? Don't you feel a responsibility to take care of the child you created?
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    Re: Dad must pay child support for 3 kids that aren't his: Court rules

    man has an affair and he pays out of his ass on the Divorce settlement and child support.

    Women has an affair with numerous people and man still has to pay for her kids.


    Just another example of the double standard in regards tomarriage contracts in our modern society.
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