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    Re: Dad must pay child support for 3 kids that aren't his: Court rules

    Also, the court should have required the attorneys for the state to find the biological fathers and have them waive their parental rights going forward BEFORE a decision was made in this case. As it stands now, the bio fathers probably can sue for custody AND have this fellow continue to pay for the kids' support.

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    Re: Dad must pay child support for 3 kids that aren't his: Court rules

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    I'm just a naive seeker of knowledge - perhaps Americans are all just auditioning for a spot on Jerry Springer or Maury
    I will believe you are a "tongue-in-cheek" naive seeker of knowledge. Anything beyond that....nah

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    Re: Dad must pay child support for 3 kids that aren't his: Court rules

    Quote Originally Posted by clownboy View Post
    Also, the court should have required the attorneys for the state to find the biological fathers and have them waive their parental rights going forward BEFORE a decision was made in this case. As it stands now, the bio fathers probably can sue for custody AND have this fellow continue to pay for the kids' support.
    i doubt the woman would even know who the real fathers are
    much less be able to track them down 12-16 years later for a DNA test
    we are negotiating about dividing a pizza and in the meantime israel is eating it
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    Re: Dad must pay child support for 3 kids that aren't his: Court rules

    Quote Originally Posted by justabubba View Post
    it would seem this fellow had at least THREE occasions for doubt ... and a subsequent test
    Although many here have been highly critical of the actions of the husband in this case, you have to accept that this man was aware of his wife's affairs and chose to honor the marriage, forgive her, stay with her, maybe for the children, and then fathered another child, the last one. Whatever happened in the last year to cause the marriage to break up, it can't be denied that he at least seriously gave it a go and didn't just bolt. He may have had some doubts about the parentage of his three daughters but he didn't abandon them or his wife. What happened recently, that causes him to fight child support, might have absolutely nothing to do with his relationship with the children themselves.

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    Re: Dad must pay child support for 3 kids that aren't his: Court rules

    Quote Originally Posted by Viktyr Gehrig View Post
    Dad must pay child support for 3 kids that aren't his: Court rules | Canada | News | Toronto Sun

    I have absolutely no sympathy for this man. Married for sixteen years, raising four children for over a decade-- and he demands a paternity test when he gets a divorce? I think about the message that sends his children and all I can think is "**** this guy". And I reject the notion that, again, after a decade of raising three children that he is anything but their real father.
    I completely disagree with the ruling. They aren't his kids. And btw, he might just be a terrible person and not want to pay anything, and that's his right, but he might also would rather it to where his money goes towards the kids how he demands it. He can give them money for certain things, pay for their education etc. Which is much better than just demanding it that he gives the money straight to the mother. If it were me, I'd help those kids out as if they were my own, but I'd be damned if I would just cut their mother a check every month.
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    Re: Dad must pay child support for 3 kids that aren't his: Court rules

    Quote Originally Posted by Muddy Creek View Post
    I have to agree. His spite is directed at the wife, but the children are the ones caught in the crossfire. I agree with the law in that he continues to pay child support.
    "Child support" is a very misleading term here.

    The money does NOT go to the children, it goes to the mother who will spend it any way she wants to. Like buy heroin or whatever.

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    Re: Dad must pay child support for 3 kids that aren't his: Court rules

    Quote Originally Posted by justabubba View Post
    and the estranged spouse should have his day in court, at his own time and expense. nothing has deprived him of that opportunity to evidence fraud
    That is what the DNA test did here.

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    Re: Dad must pay child support for 3 kids that aren't his: Court rules

    Quote Originally Posted by roughdraft274 View Post
    I completely disagree with the ruling. They aren't his kids. And btw, he might just be a terrible person and not want to pay anything, and that's his right, but he might also would rather it to where his money goes towards the kids how he demands it. He can give them money for certain things, pay for their education etc. Which is much better than just demanding it that he gives the money straight to the mother. If it were me, I'd help those kids out as if they were my own, but I'd be damned if I would just cut their mother a check every month.
    as the legal father of all four children, it would seem he is not pursuing custody, which would then eliminate that concern about how his dollars were being spent
    we are negotiating about dividing a pizza and in the meantime israel is eating it
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    Re: Dad must pay child support for 3 kids that aren't his: Court rules

    Quote Originally Posted by Muhammed View Post
    "Child support" is a very misleading term here.

    The money does NOT go to the children, it goes to the mother who will spend it any way she wants to. Like buy heroin or whatever.
    Hopefully, she saves a little for birth control, going forward.

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    Re: Dad must pay child support for 3 kids that aren't his: Court rules

    Quote Originally Posted by Viktyr Gehrig View Post
    Two points.

    One, once the man signs that contract, he is the father, legally and morally.
    I don't see what is moral about this situation, but sure its legal.

    Two, he's more than welcome to have the paternity test performed before he signs it. If he isn't willing to do that because he's afraid of pissing off the mother, then it's his own stupid fault.
    Ok, and if he has no reason to doubt the mother than exactly why would he? .

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