Here's something to consider.
Nobody cares about your acceptance. You can sit there and stew all day about just how terrible those meanie homos are. Nobody cares. Gay people don't want to get married in your hate-filled church by a man who thinks they're an abomination because the Old Testament told him so. Nobody who ever got married ever cared if you personally approve of their union. Not one person on this planet has asked themselves "what would Ray410 think about me marrying this person?"
You whine about being forced to "accept" something. Bull****. Nobody is forcing you to accept anything. We're talking about changing the law, not changing your opinion.
Because nobody cares.
It is not an attack on heterosexuality to suggest that gay people be given the same rights as everyone else. Don't believe me? Well, answer this question then:
What demonstrable harm is done to you by two men marrying each other?